ginshun said:
We DO do that! How the heck do you think child support works? Its not like most guys do it for fun. I am sure that if you offered half of those guys nice paying, good benefit government jobs they wouldn't turn there nose up at them.
Well, it sounds like you don't identify with all the non-custodial parents out there who don't pay their child support. And, NO, we don't automatically garnish wages, that must be petitioned for and approved by the judge in each case.
ginshun said:
You can argue about this all day, but that fact is that guys get screwed on the deal if they have a kid and are not together with the mother. Believe me, I know.
As do I. Really, am I screwed? Hmmm... Disneyland, the Happiest Place on Earth is one employer who refuses to release their employment records to support enforcement. How do I know? My ex works there - and does not pay child support. In fact, he hasn't in ... oh ... 10 years now. Oh, and he HAD a government job - and quit it when I left him. So I have had to provide the insurance, the food, the clothing, the parenting, everything for these children, but ... I'm not screwed? Actually, I'm not screwed - the kids are.
ginshun said:
As for the GPS tracking, I am not really sure what the purpose of that is.
That would serve the purpose of finding him when he runs and works for cash under the table and rents a room from a friend so he doesn't have to pay support. If you think this is a rarity, think again. Here's some
statistics from one site for you, if that matters.
ginshun said:
It goes to show your state of mind though, in the fact that in your mind, once the child is born, the mother should have to pay for nothing, while the father should have to take care of the money, the insurance, and be tracked 24-7 to boot. Yup totally fair system you have worked out there.
The mother has to pay for nothing? Where did I say that? Do you honestly think that child support payments support chidlren 100%? Do you think it's enough to feed children and clothe them and provide school supplies and pay for medical bills and dental bills and vision care bills? Think it's going to pay for their braces? Midnight trips to the emergency room?
And do you think payment only comes from your wallet? This is the most revealing misconception of the responsibility of pregancy and child-rearing yet. KIDS ARE NOT FOR RENT!! They are not little animals you can hole up and toss scraps to.
Parenting is a tough, thankless, gut-wrenching job if it's done right - and that means more than the $250 per month some non-custodial parents pay in support.