So by your standard money must be taken out of my pocket to give other people so they can spend it?
If you're over 18, you're a voluntary member of the United States of America. Your money isn't being taken, you've chosen to join a group where those are the dues. You can agitate to get the rules of your organization changed, but don't complain as though you're being held here against your will.
Step 1
Public Referendum
Oh yeah, that's worked so well for California.