I realize this may be slightly off topic, but I've wondered about this myself. Being Jewish, I have had rather more than the usual number of people attempt to 'save' me - to the extent that several well-educated people have gone to their own religious leaders to determine whether I am truly 'damned for all eternity' because I do not believe in Jesus Christ as the Messiah.Carol Kaur said:Where personal experience can bring a person from any path closer to God, I question if it is aslo truly personal experience that makes a Christian think that every non-Christian is inherently evil? Or, is it because that Christian was told such a thing so often that such a person believes it to be truth? More confusing still is my wonderment as to why such hate is tolerated within the confines of the faith.
One of these people (the principal at the school where I teach) told me, with a great deal of relief, that the leader of her study group had assured her that, although I could never attain the highest levels of Heaven, I would be allowed into the lower levels with the other apostates who had, despite their quasi-heathenish status, lived a reasonably good/ethical/meaningful/etc. life.
Another (a teacher I work with) told me that she didn't proselytize because, according to her Christian variant, when a non-believer dies, s/he is placed in what amounts to a university, and then educated in the correct belief system. At the end of the universe, those in this educational setting are sorted into two groups - those that have accepted the 'correct' belief system, who go to Heaven for eternity, and those who have maintained their 'incorrect' beliefs, who are dumped into the pit for eternal torment. Since this 'education' continues until Judgement Day, she was certain that I would see the error of my ways well before the end of time.
Both of these women meant well, and were truly trying to assure me that I was not eternally damned (at least, not automatically), as the more entrenched members of their religions believe... and I didn't have the heart to tell them how offensive I found their remarks - because no matter what they said, or how much they felt they were reassuring me, both of them clearly stated that it was in spite of my religious beliefs, not because of them, that I retained the potential to not spend the afterlife in Hell, because according to their religions, my religion was wrong, and left me in horrible danger, solely because I did not share belief in one particular issue... and belief in Jesus Christ as the Messiah is the only real point on which Jews and Christians disagree; all the rest is detail - I'll grant that the entire New Testament is a lot of detail, but that was the point of schism, and the moral tenets (if not how they are expressed) remain fundamentally the same.