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No one is talking about the skill of anything and you know it. Have an honest conversation about skill and you'll won't get any of these side track arguments.Yeah. Not a great place to argue from when discussing a skill though.
But they are willing to condem someone who isn't going to step into a fight against multiple people or a man who isn't a strong swimmer for not jumping into water to drown himself in an effort to save someone elseBut we are not necessarily putting the smart decision above the right decision. And we are not condemning kids who can't swim or Aikidoka's who can't fight for not jumping in.
I'm not the one doing the condemning here. I posted simple question by flipping roles where it was an adult that was drowning and a child who cannot swim. To see if anyone would say that the child should take the same risk that some in here think I should take. And yet instead of answering people say it's a strawman, and it's not. It's an honest question. I've notice when people here don't want to answer the hard question, the first thing they say is it's a strawman.
I don't look at things as "Smart Decision" vs "Right Decision." Because to do is to act as if both are opposite and they aren't. For example, Trying to break up a fight by yourself where there are multiple attackers is not Smart and it's Not the Right way to do that.
A smarter decision would be to get some assistance in trying to deescalate meaning you don't go in at it alone. That would be both smart and the right way to go about it. The framing that "Smart decisions" and "Right decisions" are on opposite ends is false and it often leads people to stupid decisions. BJJ /MMA guy already proved that and we saw the result.