I don't see anything unfair about it. Do you think he would do the same things if he had been successful at applying Aikido techniques?
Not my problem, Not your problem. I'm not blaming him for anything. For starters, based on how he carried himself with that Zen Ton and movement, he clearly didn't take Aikido for fighting. That was his choice and there's nothing wrong about that choice. But somewhere down the line he forgot why he originally join Aikido and made the assumption that he could use it simply because he trained it. Maybe all of the throws that he practiced gave him that assumption.
Some people look at Martial Arts as a mental health thing. Others look at it as fighting thing. No matter which one we choose, the thing that we must not do is to get the two confused as being the same. Don't think that fighting and sparring with the martial arts is the best path to health. Don't think focusing on health is the best path to fighting.
The system really doesn't have a focus. It's the person who decides what focus to take. People can train boxing and still suck at fighting.
Nope. Again. I'm not blaming the practitioners. As a practitioner you choose what your goals are and how long you want to keep those goals and when you want to switch those goals. Do schools mislead? yes. But somewhere down the line he should have been thinking. I wonder how I'll do against someone who doesn't train Aikido. I'm assuming he has friends. As a friend to join him for a friendly sparring match so he can safely test his skills.
When you want to test your basketball skills, you play basketball.
When you want to test your baseball skills, you play baseball.
When you want to test your running skills, you race against someone else.
When you want to test your tennis skills, you play tennis
When you want to test your aikido fighting skills, you do drills? Nah. not today. The tone that I hear often is "TMA is the exception to those rules." Too man TMA practitioners think that their system is so special that it is the exception to everything that is the rule. I've heard that same tone in her but I kept my mouth shut about it.
If you want to test anything then you must apply it in the context that you are measuring. Meaning. It is impossible to test fighting skills without fighting. It's that simple. No magic, no exception. It follows the rules that everything else follows. There's nothing that's so special about Jow Ga kung fu. That I don't have to put in the work and run through the same fires to test my fighting skills. People talk about Ego in martial arts but, I swear TMA often have the biggest egos out there. That's not me slamming TMA. I like TMA. I'm just calling it as it is and how it usually plays out.
Had he been able to apply his Aikido he would have never called out Wing Chun or those other systems.
I think questioning your MA is counter productive. The first thing you should be doing is trying to see if you understand your martial arts enough to be able to use it. It's through understanding it that you'll discover things that aren't honest. If anything question your training. Does your training follow the "Universal norms" of learning how to fight. How does boxing train, how do other fighting systems train. Are you doing similar training?
Questioning your MA will bring doubts and that will work against you. When I do Jow Ga techniques, I have to be all in with that technique. I can't be indecisive or second guessing the technique. Success or fail I have to be all in. If I fail then I have figure out where I went wrong.
Yeah they do. When my Jow Ga school screwed me over, you don't think I was pissed off at Jow Ga or TMA? The only difference between me and Roka is that I cleared my head by asking a few questions.
1. Why did I take Jow Ga in the first place. Was it to impress a Sifu or another Instructor? Answer: No
2. Did I like doing Jow Ga before I got into the school? Answer: Yes
3. Am I going to let 2 people who screwed me over destroy my passion for what I do? Answer: No
I could have easily gone on a rant about not trusting TMA, Don't sell out to them. I could have easily tried to get back at TMA for what I went through. I could have easily said. Don't believe that TMA line about being family.
But I didn't. I kept with 1 and 2, and #4 which is to be a good representation of Jow Ga.
People talk about how Aikido is good for spiritual and mental growth, yet look at Roka. He turned out to be a regular human being. So much for Zen.
Well what it does show is that he wasn't learning what was being taught. It doesn't mean its his fault, it could have been his instructor, he could have had different expectations. When I started training the Aikido, I was told, "hey, this stuff is the core of my system but its all gonna be hit or miss, you are going to need everything else worked in to avoid getting your *** kicked". I accepted that and over the course of learning, I saw how things needed to be tweaked, applied and how hard it was to make it work during sparring, or really even just uke nage if the partner wasn't "good" ie helping. We even went to Japanese schools to watch them and see if there was anything different in style/method, etc.
I ended up picking up a book on the history of Aikido with a big bunch of pictures in it, it might have been Ueshiba's "secret teachings" I don't remember, but it was entirely dedicated to Ueshiba's life and advice and it had a pretty good set of pictures in it for most of the traditional Aikido techniques. I started to see notes from Ueshiba that were not in the training, like the heavy emphasis on striking before applying certain techniques. Ueshiba's quote on Kote Gaeshi for example was that it takes three good strikes to get the average person ready to be thrown with Kote Gaeshi. Come to find out, if you hit someone in the face first or strike them a few times while they are grabbing onto you and quickly move into something like a kote gaeshi, it works great. So is that applicable to MMA? Nope. Does it quickly end a street fight or a violent confrontation for most people in most realistic circumstances? Hell yes it does.
Rokas didn't learn his Aikido alongside other arts, he didn't ever train on practically applying it, he walks into a room with some BJJ/MMA coach with no experience actually fighting and of course he is going to look like a kitten in the ring. He probably fell back to the wrist locks just because he was so darn lost, he doesn't even know to keep his guard up as he moves. Had that been a real encounter, he would have eaten punches that whole time. In my opinion he would have been perfectly justified in being upset if he had been told false promises of what he was getting, but he spent 15 years supposedly doing it? He NEVER questioned before then "maybe I should get in a fight"?
Rokas, like a lot of the community, built a house out of false pretenses. He assumed, he could go to one place, get some hours clocked in and become some kind of warrior, well, the reality of that is you don't ever become a warrior by training an hour or two a week in a strip mall, they don't do boot camp three hours a week over five years. When a Samurai, for example, started learning Budo, he went to one school for swordsmanship, another for horse riding, another for archery, another for mounted archery. Then he probably studied under at least one Jitsu-ryu and took a class for wrestling. He didn't slip being a warrior into a class or two a week, it was his whole life, every day from childhood. So why people think they can hit a class, even with a good teacher, for an hour or two a week and become this big badass is beyond me, but the expectation is there and after 15 years of $50 an hour, there's some entitlement issues also.
I started learning Aikido, had the same issues, sat down with it like a rubics cube and then started to integrate it with everything else, instead of treating my prior instruction in TKD, capoeira, bujinkan sillyness, the Marine Corps martial arts, karate as a kid, etc and alongside what I brought to the table we were also learning the BJJ, Judo and Kali stuff. We adopted a policy of "train what works" and ditch the rest. So we started streamlining what we were teaching and spending time working on and also started encouraging the students who were coming in to resist, interject, give opinions, etc. What we ended up training, a few months later, looked nothing like Aikido, except it absolutely was, still is, Aikido, it teaches all the same principles, techniques, it just adds to it and tweaks some stuff but if you sit there and listen to me for example, explaining the Muay Thai clinch, how to enter or receive to setup the clinch, how to manipulate the movement of the opponent, etc, you would quickly say to yourself "oh man, I'm in an Aikido class".
Im sure, given some time and some open mindedness or curiosity, the community will fix itself and adapt and do the work to bring Aikido forward more than it has. The talk between Rokas and Chris Hein really stuck out to me, because Rokas comes around, admits his personal ******** and endorses Chris and his Aikido and even says he is thinking of coming back around and training some Aikido again. The great thing about the Aikido community, more than others I have seen, is he can come back and no one will make him eat his humble pie, there just isn't that sense of malice you get in the MMA gyms or here on the internet where everyone feels like they need to posture against one another. Rokas lost some of my respect with his challenge videos but he got it back with that interview and his Wing Chun response. Part of me thinks that if he can be that honest with Aikido and Wing Chun, then maybe a good natured "prove it" type challenge could be good for the community. Aikido could definitely benefit from knocking off the post war hippy stuff and a few hundred brains trying to get it to that next step of modernization. I'd love to open a school and help, but I cannot with my current work schedule and I'm not going to give up my real career to go make peanuts teaching martial arts, I can't even stand charging for lessons.
I think there is actually more frontier out there than most think. There's tons of work to do, but there's so many martial arts with some really promising stuff that could be worked on. For everything MMA has "solved" its created a stagnant, petulant martial arts community around it and there's not a huge amount to do with it, as it is other than to get your BJJ classes in so you can get off the ground if the fight goes there. What the MMA community does do, is give an outlet for all the kids who just want to jump in and learn how to fight so they can stop peacocking long enough to become actual martial artists in the classical sense of the word. Respectful students of a lifelong pursuit towards mastery.