You dont understand how self defence actually works. You are trying to explain how you want self defence to work. Because that gells with your training methods.
So you create a circumstance in training that people throw a technique that makes your defence work. (Your version of a sloppy street punch) This does not reflect the reality of anything. Neither street or sport. Just your idealised version of martial arts.
Except it's not "my version" of anything. It's something we can see in video evidence that actually occurs.
When we see sparring. We see a very predictable respons of dear in the headlights as the reality does not meet the expectation.
Except when people have also sparred. Which we do. Now, I might still be surprised by someone's skill, or run into an approach I've not trained for (something I love to run into - new stuff to work on), but that can happen to any of us, regardless of style.
You suggested that to work effectively a punch needs to be thrown with intent. The first video was a punch thrown with intent.
This might be where you've gotten off the rails in understanding my point. Pretty much all punches are thrown with intent, unless they are feints. That's going to be as true for a skilled, controlled, and contained punch as it is for an over-committed one. The key point is the amount and method of weight commitment. Over-committed punches have a different dynamic, which can be taken advantage of. The same is true of under-committed punches (which we could arguably say lack "intent", I suppose).
You decided that that wasn't the right punch as both parties were trained. And that most agressors wont be trained.
Not quite true. You keep ignoring that I've not said those things (skilled punches) don't exist. I've clearly said they do, and that they require a different approach than over-committed ones. So, that set of punches wasn't addressing what you were saying I was wrong about. If you say to me that there are a lot of white cars on the road, me pointing out a dozen red cars doesn't have any bearing on your statement.
So I showed punches thrown with intent by people who were not trained. And the definition expanded to people who were not formally trained but either skilled or experienced. And again does not fit in to your right sort of punch.
That's a fair point. I tend to lump anyone with skill into the "trained" category. "Skilled" would be a better word. That part of the disagreement is on me.
And so you again found some punches that met your ideal version of a punch you wanted. And they were not very effective punches.
Not "punch you wanted" - "punch that exists". Different thing. I'm not hoping for those (okay, I am - we all are - they're easier to deal with). They just happen to be the kind I mentioned earlier that happen fairly commonly. Again, it was literally the first video I clicked on after searching "bully" on Youtube. I didn't have to cherry-pick to find it.
Every time you limit what punch you can use. You take away from the argument that you are training for a common punch.
Except, again, I didn't have to search hard to find several examples. It's actually pretty common to find in videos. If you search for KO's, you'll find more skilled punches (because they're more likely to result in KO). If you look at trained fighters, I hope to hell you'll see more skilled punches. But it's pretty easy to find evidence of unskilled punches. It's also pretty easy to find evidence of over-committed punches where someone's reaching to cover distance in anger (can't tell their skill level as clearly then).
But you dont want a common punch you want an idealic punch that suits your method of defence.
Except that there's a lot of evidence of those punches being reasonably common. You've presented a false trail here, DB, and you should be aware of that. You're trying to make it look like I'm cherry-picking because I said your two sets of videos weren't evidence contrary to my point. Those weren't randomly selected videos - you chose them, claiming them to be counter evidence. It's not me cherry-picking the evidence - you chose that evidence to demonstrate that good punches happen - a point I made before you started down this rabbit hole.
Rather than training a method of defence to suit an actual punch you might face.
Are you now claiming the video I posted doesn't represent an actual punch I might face? Or that I have ever said over-committed punches are the only punches that happen, or that they are all I train for? If so, you're lost deep in the woods.
And you don't realise any of this which is why you think my comments are strawmen or irrelevant or mean or I am just too damn blond. Or whatever.
You are desperate to hold on to an ideal.
Except that I've pointed out several times where you are, in fact, arguing against something I've not said - the very definition of "strawman argument".