Just an observation
The thread starts with a poster (Gorilla) enquiring about child black belts. Following his post is a robust discussion about child black belts, including several points that are critical of the subject.
Therefore, it logically follows that the discussion is going to be about child black belts, and the discussion is going to be quite rigorous. If someone is going to interject their teacher as an example, then their teacher becomes part of the discussion. If someone wants to interject their student as an point at issue, then their student becomes part of the point at issue. And yes, if someone wants to interject their child as an example, then their child becomes part of the point at issue.
TKD_Father, welcome to MT and congratulations on your son's accomplishment. Regardless of what any of us think of child black belts, it is refreshing to hear about kids that are training and otherwise taking on healthy habits, instead of some of the alternatives that kids are getting in to these days . The debate over child black belts has been around for as long as there have been child black belts, and it is one that is going to continue to rage for some time. However, you stepped in to a very hot debate. Had you started a seperate thread simply saying that your son earned his black belt and that you were proud of him, I think you would have received a round of applause...and I think one of the loudest cheers for you and your son would be from Terry, who has 3 boys of his own in TKD.
I think Daniel mentioned that we appear to be a clique is not just because some of us know each other in reallife...its because we've gotten in to knock-down-drag-out fights with one another or helped each other through rotten situations and still managed to remain friends in the end.
Back to the mats...