I think most of those are marketing language. There are some good points in there, but several of them contradict each other. If you put them all together, there seem to be only two options: nothing, or all-out attacks on each other with no rules.
I'll address the more reasonable points, in the interest of time:
1. Yes, but not necessarily the wrong assumptions stated here. Reviewing videos that are available and talking with folks who deal with attacks is probably the best we can do to adjust our assumptions.
2. I'm not sure what his actual point is here. He seems to mix a couple of other points together. Going from his initial phrase, I agree. There's a tendency to start from the assumption that you get to work at one given distance (some arts close, some farther, etc.), which is a mistake. Good fight training/SD training should cover controlling/working at various distances.
3. Again, he seems to mix points here. SD-oriented schools tend to make this mistake, but not in the way outlined. I think this is mostly a repeat of #1.
5. This is something said often by SD schools. I'm not sure there's a lot of validity in the "sport mindset is bad" claim.
@drop bear can do a better job than me of expounding on that.
6. This seems to be mostly a misunderstanding of the purpose of drills.
7. Not really true of SD-oriented training. Whether they do well at this or not is an entirely different question.
8. I can't think of an instructor I've trained with for more than a couple of hours who hasn't actually made this point, so not sure where they're getting it.
9. While some folks do seem to train as if a single technique will end the attack/fight, most don't seem to train with that mindset. It's certainly not universal, as the quote implies. The extreme example provided is a ridiculous jump.