Anger is one of those things that when your on the losing end of the stick, and your trapped, can give you an edge. However, this in my mind is a real slippery slope. I know when I was younger I had a very bad temper. If you let it go to far, all you see is red, and when it's over all you know is what happened before and after, but not during. Anger can make you lose all self-control. Like I was told for years by my grandfather, "You can kill a man just as easily glad, as you can mad." His point being, that when your fighting if your cool, calm, collected, you can do the same things calmly as you can when your angry. The difference being that you can remember what happened. As opposed to when the cops show up, and the guy isn't breathing and you don't remember why, he isn't breathing, other than he attacked you. Did he pull a knife in the middle of the attack? Grab a rock, a stick what? IF you lose control you won't know, and the object may not be readily in site to give you a clue. OR maybe your holding it in your hand, cause you took it away from him, and in the heat of combat stabbed the guy to death, but you can't remember. This is why I try to be calm, at lease enough that I can remember what happened. Even just a fight where the cops show up, and nobody dies, or is seriously injured, you need to be able to calmly explain what happened. Also when your angry you will do things that can go well beyond excessive. As in the example of taking the knife away, where as calm you may not continue to attack him with his own knife, angry you very well may. You can't make rational decisions when you let your self lose control. The thing is that once your angry it's very easy to let it go beyond just being mad. ANyways that's enough on this subject.
To answer the question posted by the thread poster. I'm not afraid of any man, BUt I'm always afraid to fight. If that makes any sense. I don't like it, and everytime I'm scared. Scared of what I'll do, and what my opponent will do. Like my dad told me all of my life, " Son I don't care who it is. I don't care if it's Bruce Lee, his knees are shaking just as bad as yours are." Really put things into perspective for me when I was younger. That guy across from me, no matter who it is, is just as scared as I am. So guess I'm a afraid of every fighter to a point, just not the man. He bleeds like I do, his bones break like mine do, and he puts his pants on one leg at time just like I do.:asian: