I got my black belt a few weeks ago and the KJN asked me this question after my 1st subsequent class.
Although I know he wanted to hear "great" or something similar, my honest answer was a little disappointing in that I felt that my kicking was better before, when I was working less and going to TKD more than my current 1-2 times per week.
Given that everyone who shows up at TKD for 3 years gets a BB, I have no particular pride in the belt itself, although I know KJN wants to hear that.
Nonetheless, what did it feel like for you once you got your BB?
Hmm, to be honest, reading this, I wonder why you'd attend a school that you don't value the skills you gain from, the ranking structure (and what you feel it is representative of), and that you, in your words, don't feel any pride in your achievements within…
Gwai Lo Dan,
One other think I would share with you.
The word Do, or Dao. 道, often is translated Path or Way....
But a better understanding would tell us it means journey.
Tang Soo Do,
Tae Kwon Do,
Hap Ki Do...
You are on a lifelong journey to learn your art.
Or, you know… street. As in "Main Street".
What I'm saying is that, while there can be such ideals associated, it's hardly a thoroughly universal aspect… and honestly, "journey" would be your interpretation.
I'm looking to do some muay thai in order to improve upon 3 things:
1) fighting stance where punches to the head are allowed
2) punching, including kick/punch combinations
3) what I am exposing myself to when I throw a kick
However I want to wait until I see my name on the KKW website first.
Doing Muay Thai will improve your TKD? Is that the same as learning Italian to improve your Swahili? I mean… much of what you're listing is not TKD… it's a different approach, a different context, a different methodology… so what does having your name on the KKW website have to do with it? Are they not going to put your name up if you do muay Thai too early? And, if you have no pride in your rank, or your achievement, or in the skill you feel you've attained… why are you waiting to have it advertised?
The general consensus here is that everyone who tries, gets a BB. So amongst 20 students testing, you might have 2-3 who are really good, 5 who are pretty good, 5 who are so-so, and 2-3 who frankly couldn't do much effectively if push came to shove.
I've never been to a school where they say "you just aren't coordinated enough or athletic enough to get a BB". Consequentely, everyone who shows up gets the BB, at the schools I've seen anyway. It's akin to the high school diploma - sure there's work, but EVERYONE graduates.
Leaving off the gaps in the maths there (hmm… that might explain the second part), are you suggesting that it's not possible to fail to graduate from high school? Really?
And yes, there are plenty of places where you simply can be not good enough (in various ways) to get a black belt… regardless of what you believe.
That's the way I look at it. Now that I have a BB, I can leave for a bit to try other things, and come back with more acceptance. Also, I now feel like I can comment more in class; for instance a white belt was having a hard time with the "knee-up hop forward", so I asked her to follow me.
Er… right. You think you needed a black belt to leave and try other things? And now you can comment? Even though you're looking to leave?
Yeah… the impression you're giving me is that you're not in the right school for yourself. Unless you can say something positive about it, that is…
When I earned my black belt I knew that I was more than a guy that is "now just beginning and starting my journey". I started my journey when I walked in the door as a white belt. The 5 years of hard work I put in made me what I am today, and that's not a beginner. Please don't insult me by telling me that I was now just starting my journey. I wonder why people keep saying this. I realize that it a humble thing to say but the reality is if you earned a black belt you should be qualified, unless your instructor let you down, and then yes, you are a beginner. I know I will receive a lot of flack on this but it's ok, bring it on
So… 40 years down the track, and you're insulted that your first major achievement, some five years into your journey, was considered "the beginning" of it? And, out of interest… "if you earned a black belt, you should be qualified"… qualified for what?