On refusing rank...
I haven't risen through the ranks anywhere near as fast as is common in the Bujinkan nowadays. Personally (and this is only a gut feeling on my part, nothing more and nothing less) I believe that this has primarily to do with three things - 20 percent due to my tendency to ruffle feathers (however right I may be), 20 percent due to the fact that I tend to keep two or three steps ahead of current events and can sometimes have a hard time focusing on the moment, and 60 percent due to my relative absence for the last two and a half years. That is, absence from my main dojo - I've come to realize that I won't ever be able to settle for just training with one single instructor for the rest of my budo career, perhaps because out of the five particular people I never feel I get enough from, two have fairly irregular teaching schedules and three live in Japan. Adding to this is the fact that it hasn't been until now that I've felt myself to be in the position to argue for better hours with my bosses, and thus haven't always been able to make it in time throughout the same period of time.
Despite all this, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that all I'd need to advance in a flash would be to become a permanent student at another dojo - but that's not going to happen. Despite all the things "at home" that continue to make my skin crawl with irritation and injustice, the benefits in terms of training partners, atmosphere, attitude and sheer nowledge over there have kept me coming back, and probably will for some time to come, even though there might be more (superficial, at least) appreciation to be had elsewhere.
During my last Japan visit I even told a particular Shihan that if I came home with the rank he'd recommended for me it would seem to everyone at home that the only reason I went to Japan was to get promoted (for those of you thinking I was just trying to make myself look humble, rest assured that the Shihan in question understood my predicament very well).
Someone commented to me recently that the only reason people refuse to accept rank is to make themselves look special, i.e. ego gratification.
I suppose I'm going to have to let others decide if that's the case with me, that I need that particular excuse in order to stand out.