That was the only way to ever go forward. The fact of the matter is that the U.S. has never been good at guerilla warfare, at least not the political-military kind necessary for this type of engagement. We have gotten better at it,but maybe not good enough.
The thing that I take issue with is the fact that you seem to belive that the average soldier is there for revenge, or to blow up wedding parties. Perhaps it's because they have a sincere belief that they are doing what is necessary for their country.
Terrorism will never be defeated. It is a tactic, not an organization. It will be used by whomever finds it useful. And someone will always find it useful whenever they cannot successfuly engage a larger army. Hell, the U.S. did it in the War of Independence.
The main difference between now and then is the efficiency of the attackers.
When you have a media that is predisposed to think along leftist lines, it is difficult, if not impossible, in a country with a free press, to win that front. No matter how logical the argument.
But who is propogating the fact that it is about oil lines and politics? The same media as above.
I would be interested to see what you mean by "more than rumours actually". What is your evidence?
It is never the leaders that fight the wars.
You are making one assumption: that they want your different way of living.
As I said before, trading sanctions would have been used against us, just as a military action. The only real way to make change is to essentially
force upon the common people economic prosperity. And I say force, because the leaders of those countries would lose power if they allowed the common man prosperity, and would fight it at all cost.
This is the type of action that will bring us closer to peace, we'd do well to listen to the Gurkhas, they are reputed to have liberated Afghanistan from the Muslims before in the 8th century. This isn't their first time in Afghanistan.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/asia/the-gentle-touch-of-the-gurkhas-1609186.html
Hearts and minds is not a new operation for the British.
http://stinet.dtic.mil/cgi-bin/GetTRDoc?AD=ADA479660&Location=U2&doc=GetTRDoc.pdf