Yes, fighting is essentially what happens when your self defence skills have failed. Are you seriously going to argue that to only possible out come to a self defence situation is to fight?Are you seriously going to argue that her ability to fight off an attacker isn't self defense?
As Chris rightly says, “Fighting is not self defence boys”. I know I have been over this with you before, but I’m feeling generous, so I’m going to give it one more go at educating you before I fly the white flag.
The story you are talking about is this:-
Woman used karate to turn the tables on her violent attacker
Yes, she beat him up, but ask yourself WHY did she NEED to beat him up? Because she lacked the necessary self defence skills to stop the situation BEFORE it got to the point where it became a fight.
Fighting, self defence, and martial arts are three different things. Yes, there will be some skills which cross over (a good punch is always a good punch) but the point which is repeatedly being explain to you is that fighting is not self defence, and that merely being a good fighter does not automatically translate into being good at self defence. In fact, some of the skills you will learn to be successful at fighting are the exact opposite of the skills needed for successful self defence.
Yes she got lucky this time, but what about next time? Maybe not so lucky, no fighter however skilled can win every fight. And then she ends up beaten, raped, dead or all three. What about instead she learns self defence? i.e. she learns The Rituals of Violence and therefore learns how rapists select their victims so she knows what they are looking for, and can therefore avoid those things and thus lessen her chances of being selected as a victim next time? How about she learns Target Hardening, and knowing that they look for women wearing headphones, (as she was) so they can’t be heard when they come up behind her to attack, so that she learns no longer wears headphones? Therefore lessen her chances of being selected as a victim next time. How about she learns the Threat Awareness & Evaluation, specifically Coopers Colour Codes, which would teach her to take more notice of who and what is going around her, meaning the next time she is being assessed as a possible victim the criminal notches she is “switched on” and then he takes the decides to let her go by and waiting for an easier victim.
THIS is self defence and THIS has nothing to do with fighting and THIS will not be taught in Kyokushn or Shito-Ryu or bjj or mma or (insert name of martial art here) class.
It is clear from your numerous posts in numerous threads on the subject that (like many male martial artist, particularly young male martial artist), you are only able to see self defence in terms of bar fights or street brawls. You cannot see any other outcome to a self defence situation other than it descending into a street fight. But 99% of self defence has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with “fighting” or physical techniques what so ever. Just google Miquel Falcao & Kaue Mena for a prime example. Why did their situation end up in a street brawl? Because fighting did not teach them the 99% of self defence skills required to prevent the situation escalating to the point where the only outcome was a fight.
I am unsure how many times and how many people and how many different ways in how many different threads, we need to go over this before you begin to understand. Surely at some point you must step back and think, with so many people telling me the same thing over and over that maybe, just maybe there might be something I’m are not grasping and I might, just might therefore be wrong?
As a one final throw of the dice I present to you this free audio book, a full and clear explanation of why martial arts, self defence, and fighting are not the same.
The Martial Map (Free Audio Book) | Iain Abernethy
If, after listening to this, you still do not “get it”, then please stop talking about self defence, because you will never understand what is it, or is not.