MichiganTKD said:
Adept,
You are a mixed martial artist-someone who, by definition, associates with and practices with students of other styles. As a result, I don't really expect you to emphathize with my position as a traditional stylist. An MMA takes what he can get from every style, and has problem admitting it.
Now, if you declare yourself an MMA, I understand what that entails, for better or worse. However, if you declare yourself a Tae Kwon Do stylist, especially a traditional Tae Kwon Do stylist, yet you openly associate with and invite all styles to practice with you and share, I truly believe that is wrong.
Why? Because traditional Tae Kwon Do stands on its own and should remain apart from the other arts, as should traditional karate, traditional kung fu etc. I don't think the lines should be blurred, otherwise it is not Tae Kwon Do anymore.
There is nothing wrong with being curious about kung fu etiquette in relation to Tae Kwon Do. My own Grandmaster was explaining a little about kendo mannerisms and why they think the way they do. But we don't have have kendo students over, we don't visit kendo schools, and he doesn't demonstrate kendo. We are Tae kwon Do, apart from kendo and the others.
Anyway, traditional martial art etiquette, manners, and philosophy takes a lifetime to understand and master. How would you even have time to openly share with other styles, unless it is totally superficial. If I really wanted to share traditional karate with a Master, I'd have to be with him 24 hours a day. I don't exactly have time for that.
Hmmm, I study FMA.
I was at a seminar for another FMA style. They were also promoting WEKAF sparring. They divided people up into grops by size, and we sparred. Some of the people there did not want to spar me, for I had a flyer up for giving a benefit seminar. I then had to explain to them that when the pads go on you get hit. no matter what level you are. This is a controlled test environment, you go out with a game plan and you see if it worked. If it did not work , why ? is what you ask later and try again.
If becuase someone decided to call me a master in a school or an art, and now I cannot get on the floor and work out with out people and or spar for fear that I might get hit, then there is no more reason to train at all. You are only a paper tiger, with nothing to offer but coaching at best, to make sure your ego is not bruised.
Maybe I have a different mentality, for you see I bounced and did security and street faught. Not the smartest thing to do, but you know it was the college age and I was in college and I thought it was ok to pay the bills to keep my in college. Yet, one punch form an untrained fighter can knock you out just as one from a trained fighter. I still study a traditional art, and I believe it works. I just do not hold any wierd notions that at some point no one is going to be able to touch me.
Now I do agree that in your school, you are teaching TKD and it is expected that it will be TKD. I have no problems with that. There is always people with questions, some people call them the What If Bunnies, for they keep coming and coming, and never stop. I explain that different arts ahve different approaches and then demonstrate using my timing and experience to show how it can be done in the art I am teaching. If they do not like this, they can go elsewhere. Just as if I step onto their teaching floor I expect it to be about their art. Unless I am an invited guest, in which case then it is about their art, only I am given the respect of my rank in the other art.
But, this does not mean I cannot go to the bar or their wedding or watch the latest UFC at their house with them. I see nothing wrong with hanging out with people of other arts. And No I am not a fan of MMA for myself, for I think they miss the point of fighting. There are great atheletes and martial artists that MMA practitioners, but there are rules. I practice for no rules myself. I do teach in a progression of safety and understanding so that students do not hurt each other or themselves, yet I do not limit their minds with rules for their practice. I support my friends who do this type of fighting and work outs, and it is a good work out. I even watch, and if their is a fight I can make it too, I try. I see nothign wrong with this mixing unless, it is back to the ego of the Master Instructor, and not wanting to look bad, or weak, or human. Dude, I make mistakes, I laugh at them and move on. This is why I continue to train, for I do not think I have it all. I hope I can always learn.
Just not sure, what your real point here is?
Master Instructors of TKD should not work out with lessors.
Explain to me why? Other than it just is so. Still confused