Fighting to win dosent help people survive?
Come on seriously?
They will be focusing on winning. In your example earlier that was hitting someone with a 2by 4 rather than do a drill properly.
The idea of a competitive mindset and a survival mindset being different is a fabrication to make self defence people feel more comfortable with training that is just not as effective.
When you do a resisted drill you need the other person to use every tool in his disposal to win at the task at hand. You use every tool to resist him.
This way you get an idea of what it takes to resist a person who really wants to beat you rather than someone who is just trying to help you look good and feel nice.
What you are describing is only one aspect of training. This wasn't a conversations about only free all in sparring, it was about training. Wanting to win in that type of sparring is fine, but it is the culmination of everything else you do in training where wanting to win is just a distraction.
Tez3 and I have both pointed out numerous problems with a competitive mindset in training and I've not seen one counter to all those downsides.
What I believe Tez3 was trying to get across was that if you are faced with life or death, thinking about winning the fight is not the same as thinking about surviving. Fighting might not even be the best option but the bravado of competition might lead you to feel otherwise.
Also this juvenile nonsense about how all SD martial artists think just lowers the tone of the whole thread.
Actually what happened is a number of people with many years of experience with real life or death violence, from bouncers to prison guards, saw how their own experience matched against what they had learned in martial arts and combat sports and were kind enough to share that.knowledge.
Sport is sport, from boxing to Shobu ippon kumite, you can be competitive in all but if real life throws something unfamiliar, like a knife, or a gang, then the mindset you need to get a trophy might not necessarily be the one you need to walk away.
But as I said, the discussion was around training so we're going off topic...