Damian Mavis
Master Black Belt
Ya a domestic violence situation is kind of similar. It's a little different because it's someone you know/love but probably the same feelings come into play with the anticipation of violence. The reason I think it is different is people get an adrenaline rush and anxiety because they might have to fight and are building up to possibly committing violence themselves. For a woman in a domestic abuse situation it's more along the lines of fearing for ones own safety with no option to fight back or defend yourself. Meaning no anxiety or dump for fighting but more straight up fear of getting hurt period.
I remember when I was a a very small kid there was a period of time my mother was in a depression and I was in a constant state of fear at home. She was always ready to set off and I had to walk on eggshells to try not to anger her. To this day I can remember the fear constantly under all my other feelings, always terrified of doing the wrong thing. Day in and day out. Thankgod that didn't last for too long. I can imagine a domestic abuse situation is kind of similar... it makes me very sad just thinking about what some women go through.
Damian Mavis
Honor TKD
I remember when I was a a very small kid there was a period of time my mother was in a depression and I was in a constant state of fear at home. She was always ready to set off and I had to walk on eggshells to try not to anger her. To this day I can remember the fear constantly under all my other feelings, always terrified of doing the wrong thing. Day in and day out. Thankgod that didn't last for too long. I can imagine a domestic abuse situation is kind of similar... it makes me very sad just thinking about what some women go through.
Damian Mavis
Honor TKD