Hi all! I've been looking to start my kids in, most likely, Wu Shu, but most of the opinions I came across on the internet so far are pretty pessimistic about its usefulness. I guess by now I'm pretty convinced that it won't make my children great fighters and that if they want to be able to defend themselves they'll have to get involved in an additional MA. But ... I still think it might be worth it for a preschooler to start off with something acrobatic that can condition their bodies to be flexible and train their reflexes and then at, say 12 years old, get started on a MA that's more focused on defense.
I understand why a 17 year old going away for college might want to go straight for a more aggressive MA that might prepare them to protect themselves in the near future, but being that my kids are so much younger, I feel like a gymnastics type MA might bring more benefits. Also, there's definitely something to be said for the aesthetics of it. When some people say wu shu is flashy, it makes it sound like that's a negative aspect. I mean maybe they're just trying to say that those acrobatics aren't going to be good against an attacker (point taken) but one has to respect the level of physical fitness and conditioning it takes. For example, being in my early 30's I feel like I might be able to learn some grappling techniques (even if I won't become an expert or master) but I just can't picture myself reaching the level of flexibility and agility that are common in quality wu shu competitions. I remember being about 17 and my mom saying to me "you're too young for almost everything I can think of, except starting out in competitive gymnastics."
Anyways, what are your thoughts on wu shu for young ones? and, alternatively, what would be the cons of starting off with it versus TKD or Karate? What would you start your kids with MA-wise at the preschool age? Any thoughts appreciated
ps: My children are half Chinese so choosing a Chinese MA is a way for them to learn more about their heritage but I'm not closed off about other origin MAs.
I understand why a 17 year old going away for college might want to go straight for a more aggressive MA that might prepare them to protect themselves in the near future, but being that my kids are so much younger, I feel like a gymnastics type MA might bring more benefits. Also, there's definitely something to be said for the aesthetics of it. When some people say wu shu is flashy, it makes it sound like that's a negative aspect. I mean maybe they're just trying to say that those acrobatics aren't going to be good against an attacker (point taken) but one has to respect the level of physical fitness and conditioning it takes. For example, being in my early 30's I feel like I might be able to learn some grappling techniques (even if I won't become an expert or master) but I just can't picture myself reaching the level of flexibility and agility that are common in quality wu shu competitions. I remember being about 17 and my mom saying to me "you're too young for almost everything I can think of, except starting out in competitive gymnastics."
Anyways, what are your thoughts on wu shu for young ones? and, alternatively, what would be the cons of starting off with it versus TKD or Karate? What would you start your kids with MA-wise at the preschool age? Any thoughts appreciated

ps: My children are half Chinese so choosing a Chinese MA is a way for them to learn more about their heritage but I'm not closed off about other origin MAs.