If you needed a kidney, I'd give you one.
You can give me a kidney, because you own it. If it wasn't yours, how could you "give" it to me?
No, stewardship is what it was.
I think if it came down to you and I comparing our parenting philosophies, we'd both agree that we are more like stewards rather then owners. However, logically, parents do
own their children until they are capable of owning themselves. There is no universal moral handbook that gets handed out when a child is born and even though we may choose to extend rights to our children, we do not have to. The truth is that humans may sell their children. People all over the world do it all of the time and right now the United States is the #1 destination country for trafficked children. As much as I hate to admit it, for all practical purposes, children are property until they are capable of taking care of themselves.
One cannot legally sell children, so it doesn't fit that model of ownership. Nor would a quasi-legal "grey market:" adoption.
The laws of a country may or may not have any logical basis. Often we conflate the idea that our laws reflect the true nature of things, but most of the time they only show us how we prefer things to be. I like to examine these things from the perspective of an alien observing from his spaceship. What would it say about us.
That said...
Deuteronomy? I don't think so.
Deuteronomy 21:18-21
ĀIf a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and, though they discipline him, will not listen to them, then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city at the gate of the place where he lives, and they shall say to the elders of his city, ĀThis our son is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.Ā Then all the men of the city shall stone him to death with stones. So you shall purge the evil from your midst, and all Israel shall hear, and fear.
I might be reading this wrong and you're the biblical scholar, so I'll defer to you, but the alien is going to jot down in it's notebook that humans regularly kill their own children. In our own culture, we kill our children starting shortly after they've been conceived and ending shortly before they are born. The children are treated this way because they are property...but there is something else to consider when it comes to humans.
I do not consider it moral to kill or sell children. This is because I think that it is immoral to initiate force against another individual, which includes children. I think that when you combine the principle of Self-Ownership and the
Non-Aggression Principle, your parenting ends up looking like Stewardship.
You can permanently alter the expression of the self-there is no telling what the actual state of the self (of another) is. The expression of the self might be dependent upon the function of the body, but the self clearly is not: ask Stephen Hawking.
We can clearly test the connection between the self and the body, but there is no way we can actually test if the self is separate from the body. I think we can both agree on this. However, why should anyone believe that the self
is separate from the body in the first place? IMO, the whole idea is a spiritual hangover from the days of souls, ghosts and demons. All we know is that the expression of the self is dependent on the body, therefore we can infer that the self is the body and nothing else.
Stephen Hawking has a diseased damaged musculature, but his brain still works. I know plenty of people who are not the same people they once were because of the damage taken to their brains. The physical arrangement of the anatomy determines who that person is and is the source of the self.
All we can infer is that the self no longer has access to that body to express itself.Whether it ceases to function with that body-dissolves-or goes elsewhere-are both equally undisprovable.
Essentially, we are debating whether the body is an antennae or a transmitter. We both know that we can prove the physical nature of both. What we are missing is the signal. Can you prove that a signal exists? Do you follow my metaphor?