splazzatch
Orange Belt
Hi guys, I don't post very often I spend more time reading than posting. However I thought I would share something on here that happened a few days ago.
First a little background. I work with Juvenile Deliquents in a group home setting. These kids range between 14-18 years of age and have all broken the law in some way varying from Drug and gun crimes to simply not getting along with family. My unit is a non-secure unit and our kids are usually not violent.
I have had a few occassions to use my self-defense training but it was always a kid trying to prove he was tough or just horsing around. Until this past Friday.
We have a resident who is 5'5" 150lbs. and not very strong. I am 6'5" 250lbs and study shotokan.
This resident refused to go upstairs and get his stuff for bed because he found out that he would be staying with us for 4 more months. He swore at me and said I would have to drag him up the steps. I said okay and went to escort him (term used in my unit for placing one hand on the shoulder and one hand on his arm), I got him standing up and he swung at me. I got my head out of the way and he hit my glasses. He then came to me and we went to the ground he was on top of me starting to punch me so I wrapped my legs around him and came back on top. I had this kid on the ground face down with his left arm straight up behind him. He tried to puch me with his right hand and I just lifted his left arm higher and he stopped. When he said he would behave I started to let him up. I stepped over him and let go of his shoulder, I still had his left wrist in my left hand. When I was half over him he started to come around and try to attack again. This time I just laid down and put him in an arm bar with my knee nicely positioned over his neck so that if he squirmed he couldn't breath. We stayed like that for 10 minutes while he calmed down and decided to behave.
This is the first time I actually had to use my martial arts training to defend from being seriously injured. I know what my mistakes were and I talked to my Sensei about it and discussed some other things I could have done.
When he came down on top of me to start I thought to myself "I'm going home for dinner no matter what it takes." When I had him in an arm bar I thought to myself that I could really hurt this kid and that this stuff really works. When I practiced all my self-defense it was like okay this is what Sensei wants to do now that's fine but now it kind of clicked...
I just thought I would share this with some people who may have gone through the same thing...
First a little background. I work with Juvenile Deliquents in a group home setting. These kids range between 14-18 years of age and have all broken the law in some way varying from Drug and gun crimes to simply not getting along with family. My unit is a non-secure unit and our kids are usually not violent.
I have had a few occassions to use my self-defense training but it was always a kid trying to prove he was tough or just horsing around. Until this past Friday.
We have a resident who is 5'5" 150lbs. and not very strong. I am 6'5" 250lbs and study shotokan.
This resident refused to go upstairs and get his stuff for bed because he found out that he would be staying with us for 4 more months. He swore at me and said I would have to drag him up the steps. I said okay and went to escort him (term used in my unit for placing one hand on the shoulder and one hand on his arm), I got him standing up and he swung at me. I got my head out of the way and he hit my glasses. He then came to me and we went to the ground he was on top of me starting to punch me so I wrapped my legs around him and came back on top. I had this kid on the ground face down with his left arm straight up behind him. He tried to puch me with his right hand and I just lifted his left arm higher and he stopped. When he said he would behave I started to let him up. I stepped over him and let go of his shoulder, I still had his left wrist in my left hand. When I was half over him he started to come around and try to attack again. This time I just laid down and put him in an arm bar with my knee nicely positioned over his neck so that if he squirmed he couldn't breath. We stayed like that for 10 minutes while he calmed down and decided to behave.
This is the first time I actually had to use my martial arts training to defend from being seriously injured. I know what my mistakes were and I talked to my Sensei about it and discussed some other things I could have done.
When he came down on top of me to start I thought to myself "I'm going home for dinner no matter what it takes." When I had him in an arm bar I thought to myself that I could really hurt this kid and that this stuff really works. When I practiced all my self-defense it was like okay this is what Sensei wants to do now that's fine but now it kind of clicked...
I just thought I would share this with some people who may have gone through the same thing...