2/3 of BJJ is garbage
I'm not sure how a beginner can judge that.
I recommend you only do the no-gi as it’s more mma and realistic .
As I said, conflating BJJ and MMA.
Find a coach who can wrestle as most BJJ coaches can’t teach take downs
An 'interesting' idea.
Be sure you take some Muay Thai later
what is your age
Not sure why he wants to know Gweilo's age lol.
Not everyone wants to do a stand up style, there's no reason to if they don't want to.
I am very very picky with Coaches and if I feel they’re wasting my time they get fired and I find a better coach
However when one goes through a great number of coaches for what the beginner perceives is a waste of time ie doing basics, one questions who is actually to blame here for the lack of learning.