Steve
Mostly Harmless
I don't know which is worse, to be honest. They both suck pretty bad. My brother died suddenly a few years ago, and an old friend (someone I went to high school with) just recently died from cancer. My brother was gone suddenly, while my friend passed away over 6 months from diagnosis to her death. Both were pretty brutal, emotionally. Financially, however, long term treatments often bankrupt families in America, even if you have insurance.But having seen people linger for days, I am always thinking "How lucky'
Sorry for your loss and condolences to his family.