Lots of good advice already, Raisin. You have asked more than once about your focus. I'm curious about why you feel that way?
Part of what you are dealing with is a confidence problem - but what you have already been assured of is that this is YOUR journey - no one else's, so don't compare yourself to others. Comparison is not always a good tool.
If you cross-train, step-aerobics is a good one for developing coordination.
And, of course ... time. You must give it time. Practice a WHOLE lot. Don't start with a mirror. If you need to break things down into steps, do so and add steps on. I do this with my ADD and Autistic kids and it has greatly improved their coordination. Drill parts of patterns, add on, work on transitions a lot.
Most of all - HAVE FUN!!!
Part of what you are dealing with is a confidence problem - but what you have already been assured of is that this is YOUR journey - no one else's, so don't compare yourself to others. Comparison is not always a good tool.
If you cross-train, step-aerobics is a good one for developing coordination.
And, of course ... time. You must give it time. Practice a WHOLE lot. Don't start with a mirror. If you need to break things down into steps, do so and add steps on. I do this with my ADD and Autistic kids and it has greatly improved their coordination. Drill parts of patterns, add on, work on transitions a lot.
Most of all - HAVE FUN!!!