No, you're wrong.Do folks on here think that if there was more co-operation/understanding between all the different Arts and styles and folks could view things from the stand point of having an open mind then less arguments would take place and more open discussion?
I can and have been guilty of that myself and I will admit to that. Reading posts on here has really opened up my mind to different concepts and ideas (ok I have time on my hands lol). It has got me thinking that ok never thought of that or how I could translate that into what I already know or how what I have read makes more sense or could be applied if not easier etc more directly or as part of what I am trying to achieve.
I would also like to make the suggestion that there is a heck of a lot of confusion goes on between arts due to the different terminology used for either the same thing/principle/technique and that cause division. Also adding to that I do feel that could in some cases (not all) there be the lost in translation element as in what we in the west may think it means may not actually be what it means or what we think is only partially what it means. I am sure at times this is the case at times.
I am sure folks will shoot me down over this and that is fine as long as they make a logical and rational argument and not just say "NO WE DO IT THIS WAY AND THAT THE ONLY WAY" or " YOUR ART IS WRONG AND DOESN'T WORK"
It may be a pointless exercise and I may get huge flak but so be it if it opens only a few minds it worth it
Seriously, yes. I think if folks started with the understanding that the motivation for training isn't the same for everyone. In fact, it often changes over a person's life. So, what's "good training" (or even "good technique") for one purpose might not be as good for another purpose. And also we have to allow that most of us have some wrong ideas in our heads - meaning, we should accept that we come into these discussions with some concepts that are overstated, misunderstood, etc., and not attack others who don't agree. On more than one occasion, I've had a discussion of concepts turn into an attack on me and my training approach - often without an actual understanding of my training approach. Most of it was just lack of understanding of each other - me and the other folks not communicating well. There was probably also (on both sides, I expect) some irrationality from cognitive defenses.
I try not to push my ideas on others. Where they are relevant, i share them. If others don't agree, it's really not a problem for me. I'm much more interested in trying to understand where their points come from, and perhaps help them understand what the point is I'm making (whether they agree with it or not).