Update: My mom quit the TKD school and joined the women's cardio kickboxing class at my BJJ gym.
Her goals in TKD were:
- Coach the little kids, because she loves babies and toddlers.
- Learn Taegeuk 6-8, because when our old school switched she only learned 1-5. She also knew Koryo and Keumgang in order to get her 2nd degree (our school puts both into the 1st-to-2nd requirements).
- Get exercise.
- Practice strikes.
She was frustrated trying to teach the kid's class because she can't figure out what stripe you need to be for what. I was also struggling with this after 3 months. The tots class at this school is white belts with longitudinal stripes for each belt color, and then multiple tape stripes of different colors for every little thing, and you're only supposed to teach them exactly what they need at each stripe. For example, if you have your form stripe, you don't do forms anymore, you do whatever the next stripe is.
She also has quit judging. Initially he wanted us to judge, to show that we were high rank even though we don't know his curriculum. He never gave us the opportunity to do anything but sit there (never graded a paper, never offered any advice, just sat there silently). So he never saw any value in us judging, and asked them to stop because they don't know the curriculum.
She can't practice Taegeuk 6-8 because he
only will let her practice Keumgang, because she needs it for her next test.
She needs the Taegeuks, too. She's not getting exercise because his classes are so low intensity, and they are super cautious with any adult putting in any effort at all into the workout. And the only strikes he does in class are roundhouse kicks.
She finally had enough and tried the cardio kickboxing class at my school's BJJ gym. She got in a great workout. I talked to the instructor after, she said my Mom's a beast, that she did all the workouts and all the combos without any modifications. My Mom signed up right after class.
Then my Mom came up to me while I was trying to start the BJJ warmups. "I forgot my credit card. Can you pay for me?"