Let me make a couple of suggestions...
It seems as if perhaps you're going about things backwards. You've sort of targeted several arts, and you want a good school. But you don't know what's available.
You've said you had a bad experience in one school -- though it seems like maybe you weren't there very long. But that gives you an idea about what you don't like.
So... Stop and regroup. Take a minute, and write down a list of what you want, what you didn't like, and what you thought was terrible. Use that as a tool as you look at the schools in your area. Visit them, and see what you think. Try one or two out, if they give you a free trial period. (But remember that a free trial may not really resemble a normal training session in some places.)
If you have specific questions, then, either about a ttyle or a specific school -- bring them here.
I think you may then find a lot more helpful information...
