What do you think qualifies someone to be a Grandmaster?
Nothing.
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What do you think qualifies someone to be a Grandmaster?
Everyone shall now refer to me as Grandmaster, from now on.
I called dibs!
I’m sure TKD people will discredit what I’m about to say, but by observation I typically see it mostly in TKD and it appears to me as a title tied to a very high rank like 8-10th dan.
I’m sure TKD people will discredit what I’m about to say, but by observation I typically see it mostly in TKD and it appears to me as a title tied to a very high rank like 8-10th dan.
People in the USA and other parts of the West seem to like titles and accolades that elevate them above the rest.
I think in China at least, they don’t have the same attachment nor see much use for them. Unless they are marketing to the USA or other parts of the West.
This is just me... but I don't do well with people demanding or insisting that I call them something. If it is a title that they have earned, why do they need to demand or insist I use the title? Do they lose the title, if I don't use it? Or if they don't hear it enough?In Taekwondo, you wouldn't call yourself that unless you've earned the appropriate rank. At which point I don't see the problem with demanding people call you by the title the organization has bestowed upon you. I call my Master "Master" and I tell my students NOT to call me Master because I haven't earned it yet. (I say "I'm mister, I'm not a master yet...although I like the sound of that!"). When I have earned the title, you bet I'm going to insist on my students calling me Master.
I do even less well with folks that demand my respect. If you have to demand it, it is not respect.It's important to him because it's something he's earned, it's a position given to him through the organization, and showing respect to him and his title is showing respect to him for the work he's done to earn it, and the organization that granted it. To be clear, he shows as much respect to everyone as he demands in return, so it's not like he's throwing around "I'm the master" as an ego trip.
This is just me... but I don't do well with people demanding or insisting that I call them something. If it is a title that they have earned, why do they need to demand or insist I use the title? Do they lose the title, if I don't use it? Or if they don't hear it enough?
I choose to use titles. I do so, because I am trying to show respect. Its my choice. If you have to insist or demand the use of a title... you lose a portion of my respect.
I do even less well with folks that demand my respect. If you have to demand it, it is not respect.
In my view, respect can only be given. You can demand all you want, but you only get my respect when I choose to give it. You can do whatever you want, to earn my respect, but you still don't get it, until I choose to give you respect. It can't be true respect, unless I give it of my own free will.
The whole "sir" and "mister" thing, falls a little flat for me too. We are not in the military. We are in an after school program for adults. The places where I continue to go, we find ways to treat each other as adults and as people first.
Each organization sets their own titles, and requirements and so forth. When I meet and train with these people, I use appropriate titles out of my respect for them. Those I respect most, introduce themselves: "Hi, I am Bill, nice to meet you." If I wanted to know their rank, I would look it up elsewhere. But, I would only do that, after figuring out how much I respect them, and then only out of idle curiosity. I have already determined if I want to spend more time on their mat. When someone does not need to hide behind a title or pretend we are in the military for no reason... I tend to respect them a bit more. They tend to let their ability stand for what it is. If they have put the time in, it will show in the quality of their technique and/or their teaching... and most importantly, the quality of their character.
As an instructor, the highest form of respect I want from my students, is to try to do what I ask them to, how I ask them to do it. They can "Hai Sensei!" me and "Yes Sir!" me all day... but if they won't attempt to change the details I ask them to change, how much do they really respect me as an instructor? I do the same when I am the student. First and foremost, I do my best to do exactly as I am being asked, while on their mat. I find it very disrespectful to say "Hai Sensei" with my lips while my actions on the mat say "I don't believe what you are teaching me enough to even try it."
In our system, Master is 4th-6th Dan, GM is 7th Dan or higher. Because that's what the head honchos decided, and there doesn't really need to be any other reason.
All Dan holders are Mr/Mrs/Miss/Ms, or Sir/M'am.
Outside class I'm just Mark. And I don't really care if people forget to use titles in class, either. Unless they forget with one of my seniors. Then I care.
There was this guy who taught TKD as an after school program where I teach (academic school). He introduced himself to EVERYONE as “Master John.” Parents, faculty, etc. Of course me being me, I couldn’t help but mutter “Master Bates is here” whenever he walked in. Two teachers at the school actually thought that was his last name. One teacher unknowingly mentioned “Master Bates” during a staff meeting (fortunately he wasn’t there). Everyone knew exactly where it originated, even the ones who never heard me say it knew it had to come from me.I was at a competition a number of years back, and a fellow came up to me in the bar and introduced himself as "Master". Needless to say I was less than impressed, since he didn't even offer to buy me a beer to make up for it.
Haha yeah I'd also find it weird to call someone master to be honest... but very comfortable with Shihan, Sensei and Sempai.Why is it I have serious issues with calling anyone Master anything, yet I have zero problems with calling someone Master in another language, like Shihan (Japanese)? I’d honestly not attend any school where I had to call anyone master, no matter how good the instruction hypothetically would be.
Edit: For the record, I’m white. Many of my black friends say they’d never call anyone master; I understand and respect that. My disdain for it has nothing to do with that. My mind doesn’t go anywhere near there in a MA context.
Why is it I have serious issues with calling anyone Master anything, yet I have zero problems with calling someone Master in another language, like Shihan (Japanese)? I’d honestly not attend any school where I had to call anyone master, no matter how good the instruction hypothetically would be.
Edit: For the record, I’m white. Many of my black friends say they’d never call anyone master; I understand and respect that. My disdain for it has nothing to do with that. My mind doesn’t go anywhere near there in a MA context.
I'm going to guess it's because you have a western definition of the title stuck in your mind.
I hate that term and refuse to use it. I don't see the point of it apart from ego flashing.
Haha yeah I'd also find it weird to call someone master to be honest... but very comfortable with Shihan, Sensei and Sempai.
And nup I still can't not imagine you as being black (have always just associated your avatar with you hahaha XD).
Why is it I have serious issues with calling anyone Master anything, yet I have zero problems with calling someone Master in another language, like Shihan (Japanese)? I’d honestly not attend any school where I had to call anyone master, no matter how good the instruction hypothetically would be.
Edit: For the record, I’m white. Many of my black friends say they’d never call anyone master; I understand and respect that. My disdain for it has nothing to do with that. My mind doesn’t go anywhere near there in a MA context.