Steve
Mostly Harmless
i think thatâs generally what one can expect, but hopefully within reason. What I mean is, lack of political savvy and an inability to read a room will surely put a bit of a marker on a guy. If you are drawing attention to yourself, you canât be surprised at the attention. But i would hope the goal isnât to make him feel so unwelcome that he quits after a failed test.Wouldnât being flamboyant get you in âtroubleâ on the mat?
When I practised Kendo, if somebody turned up with a gold-flecked lacquered chest protector (âDoâ) or something flashier than the usual black, everyone made it their number one objective to strike âDoâ to scratch it up a bit or hit the wearer slightly above itâs upper rim, and under your armpitâŠthat is painful!
When someone turned up with a white sword sheath (âsayaâ) at an Iaido seminar, he was approached by a senior grade with the comment, âYouâre brave, arenât you?â The studentâs inability to read people and situations meant he retorted with, âIâve ordered a pink one, too.â We never saw him after that seminar as he failed his shodan grading.
All Iâm saying is that itâs healthy to keep things in perspective. This is supposed to be fun. Itâs okay to take the activity seriously, but (IMO) healthy not to take ourselves too seriously. Particularly in a traditional art where there is a fairly thin line between martial arts and historical reenactment.