Also, tournaments, worth it? There is a tournament coming up and itās the first since joining that I would be eligible for. But itās expensive. And since Iām still a white belt I donāt have any experience breaking boards. (We didnāt do this in my old style). I donāt have great stamina now that Iām old (36) so I wouldnāt do well sparring. (It was always my weakest area anyway).
Anyhow, Iād love any advice you all have to give.
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I reckon tournaments are great. I'm a karate-ka, but will give my input if welcomed hehe. For years and years I was never interested in tournaments, just loved training in the dojo. I never considered martial arts to be along any lines of trying to 'win' anything, no did that motivate me, and it seemed to me to be opposite to its deeper aspects.
Then last year when I left the dojo, I had a strange curiosity to compete, and to just give it a go. Which is really bizarre! It was never to win, but it seemed like a really great challenge, ESPECIALLY the forms division, which I really loved the idea of... You go out there, in the centre of the mat, announce your form, and then just go to a whole different place, as though no one's watching you, and perform it as best as you can. Really appealed to something in me.. it was such a cool way to express everything you've learned, and give it your all. And also to work through letting go of any self-criticism and judgement you're hanging onto, or fear of judgement, as you're walking out there and literally being judged haha albeit in a different sense.
So I did forms and sparring, and loved the experience so much, and I'll probably compete this year too. I love the calm, focus, technique, thoughtfulness, intention, purpose, power and grace of forms; and I love the speed, explosiveness, strategy, accuracy, technique, patience and movement of sparring.
Also was an amazing experience to get together with other martial artists and support each other and also learn from each other too.
So as long as you don't do it out of peer-pressure (your peers or instructor trying to force you to do it) or self-pressure, and do it because you actually want to, that's pretty important. It's one aspect of martial arts, not a necessary one, but the avenue is there to explore, and it can definitely help you develop certain skills and learn a bunch like I did, and also the preparation leading up to it is fun too!
It's totally up to you, but the advice about giving the forms a go is great, if you're not as confident in sparring that's okay.
And by the way you are not old haha
If you do compete please let us know how you go!
I would say anything that a)makes you put in a period of preparation/polishing and b)puts you under stress to perform is good for your Taekwondo development. It's not the result that's important, but the process. Just my 2p worth of opinion.
Very well said!