Paul J,
I think that there is some confusion about the link between respecting and acknowledging the role of experience in the development of the fighter and the intent of the training. I donÂ’t think that I am promoting Nazism, even though I can acknowledge HitlerÂ’s public speaking skills. He was an incredibly motivating speaker, but he used that along with other skills for horrible things. I have studied the public speaking techniques, practice them and then apply them, but for my own purposes, with my own intent - hopefully less evil
but that doesn't mean that I am practicing/promoting Nazism.
From the bio on RP in regards to his experience:
"Although this training helped Remy hone his stick skills to a razor's edge, he found the senseless violence disturbing. "I began to change my concept," he recalls, "I was doing fighting all the time, for real, not sport. My reputation was that all the time if they spar with me, there will be blood. Soon no one will practice with me. I have a bad reputation. So I thought to myself I should change my way."
I see the RPÂ’s experience as a necessity for his development, not only as a fighter, but as a human being. RP recognized that this type of gang level of violence was a waste of his time, and making it hard very hard to accomplishing his martial arts/career goals because of the impact on his reputation. So he re-evaluated his priorities and:
“With the blessing of Grandmaster Bacon, Presas left Cebu to design his own system of fighting that would emphasize self-defense”
I would definitely say that I acknowledge/respect RP's experience and would also say that it was very important to his development as a fighter, but I would also say that I am not interested in gang style street duels, nor would I promote that. RP is/was a more developed fighter than I am/will be because of his experience.
I helped teach at both a suburban and a city campus for Dr B's self defense program. The some of the student's direct experience was very important to their development because they trained with intention and purpose. They used their experiences to recreate the 'fight' mind that they needed to generate good technique and realistic reactions for the street. I would consider some of those students more developed as self defense artists than I was at the time, all because of their experience.
Conversely, most of the suburban students were very slow in developing, mainly because they had grown up in such a safe and wonderful place that fighting and attacks were not an immediate danger. The best students were the girls who had 'been there done that' because of either actual attacks, or just coming damn close to being jumped/raped.
The other group of good performers in both the city and suburb program were former athletes. They used their experience - though not fighting - of full contact (football and wresting mainly) experience to click into the level of intensity and force generation that they had used in competition.
Luckily, in your fight experiences you found your training and preparation as effective. Based on that experience, you kept working on what worked. But, what would you have done if it hadnÂ’t worked at all? Chances are, during a re-evaluation you would have either trained harder or trained differently. In either case, your experience was the basis for the decision, and essential to your development.
Paul M