loki09789 said:
There have been many tangents to the original thread, but the last one as far as I knew was reactions and opinions about the statement:
"Real world fighting experience can be helpful to someones improvement as a fighter, but it is not an end all be all, or even a nessecity."
The change of topic to that of morals, false claims, and credibility isn't the focus of the posts I was making. The development of a fighter is.
"So, that's the way that it is. And it really doesn't matter how people 'feel' about the subject, because the fact is, WE all have to make the choice "
This is the only "fact" that I agree with, but just because I agree with it doesn't make it a fact, but a shared opinion. Facts are just evident, we organize them into logical constructs to reveal 'truth.' But, since 'truth' changes from person to person, culture to culture it is really opinion/values. I respect your stand that you will not promote violence, again I agree and also don't do this. But, the logical link from experience/fighter development and promotion of violence is really opinion and not fact. I could line up a logic thread that 'proves' that Ray Charles is God.
This is my problem with the idea that just because an instructor doesn't boast in advertising, or list fight resumes in advertising he/she is promoting violence:
"No matter what happens, somebody will find a way to take it too seriously...
"Be polite. Be professional. But, have a plan to kill everyone you
meet.
"Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."
H. L. Mencken
PAUL Ghostface Killa
These signatures and the images of pirate's and skull/crossbones don't mention anything about 'self defense' justifications for the violence promised or intended. These images/quotes could be seen as 'promotion' of violence because they express a pirate/raider/mercenary philosophy/justification of violence for the preservation or improvement of a way of life.
If these images/quotes were hanging on the window/posters of a school I was interested in attending, or sending my son to, I would not make past the lobby. Since this is an internet forum, globally accessible it is a form of advertising.... who is getting the message?
Paul M.
First of all, what is our definition of "fighter"? I'd actually like to renege the word "fighter" because I used it for lack of a better term.
Regardless, despite a semantics dispute, my arguement is quite clear when you put it into the context of the entire thread where I have expressed my arguement in many different ways. Examples:
""Experience" is not condusive of success in a self defense encounter. The experienced vet could take a bullet just as easily as the green private. The experienced "brawler" can be taken out by a first timer. One doesn't mean the other."
"experience is not a nessecity in developing skill, or abilities when we are refering to "combatives". If your propigating anything but this idea, then not only are you indulging in "martial fantasy" yourself, but your promoting violence with your own students."
"To promote the idea that YOU are somehow "better" because of your experience is not only promoting lies, but it is also encouraging your students to seek the same experiences so that they can also be "better"; you are promoting violence and fantasy despite what you may say to the contrary."
So, I think its pretty clear what my arguement is. I'm not the one who has been trying to change the context of the argement here.
Now, a "fact" is "a piece of information presented as having objective reality".
"Reality" is 1 : the quality or state of being real
2 a (1) : a real event, entity, or state of affairs <his dream became a reality> (2) : the totality of real things and events <trying to escape from reality> b : something that is neither derivative nor dependent but exists necessarily
An opinion is: a view, judgment, or appraisal formed in the mind about a particular matter.
Now, the antonym for fact is "illusion". An illusion, as applied to this conversation, is: something that deceives or misleads intellectually b (1) : perception of something objectively existing in such a way as to cause misinterpretation of its actual nature.
Indulging in "illusion" over "fact" creates "fantasy". A fantasy, as it applies here is: the power or process of creating especially unrealistic or improbable mental images in response to psychological need.
http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=Fact&x=20&y=11
http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=reality&x=13&y=17
http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=Opinion&x=13&y=9
http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=illusion&x=12&y=13
http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=Fantasy&x=19&y=15
A statement like "We make choices" is either fact or illusion, and can be logically proven either way. Your opinion or belief as to whether this statement is fact or illusion is inconsequentual to the arguement. What your "opinion" does demonstrate is if you are willing to accept "reality" or if you would rather indulge in "fantasy." A statement like, "Well, in my opinion the idea that 'we make choices' might not be true because, uh, how do we know that our minds aren't being controlled by aliens," would be an extreme example of how a refusal to argue facts and instead indulge in opinions leads to indulging in fantasy. This happends in Martial Arts/self defense all the time. "In my opinion weapons aren't useful because they can be turned against you in a fight!" As it pertains to this discussion, "In my opinion he MUST be skilled in self defense because he was trained in the military and got into lots of fights" Or, "In my opinion you just can't be skilled in self defense or combat unless you've been in the trenches like me!" These statements are examples of using an opinion to indulge in illusion or fantasy to appeal to a psychological need.
Now, the statements that I have said to be "fact" here have been shown as such through a logical arguement. To try to deminsh these "facts" as mere "opinions" with no logical arguement to prove that the statements in question are "illusion" is a blatent demonstration of an inability to accept "reality," and an inclination towards "fantasy".
I choose to look at "facts," and I find "facts" through evidence and logic, and I choose to accept "reality". I think it is imperitive to good self defense and martial developement to look at "reality" rather then to indulge in "fantasy." I can't help it if many people in martial arts/self-defense circles would rather indulge in "illusion" and "fantasy" over "reality," to appease some psychological need to be better/tougher/etc. then someone else.
We can discuss whether a blatent statement is fact or illusion. If you'd rather indulge in your opinion, that's your choice, although I don't know how many people will be interested. If you'd rather indulge in fantasy and illusion too, well, hey, go for it. I just ask that we not misunderstand what I am saying, dispite what planet we'd like to pretend we're on today.
and, btw, I'd love to argue over whether Ray Charles is God anyday!
Now you said:
This is my problem with the idea that just because an instructor doesn't boast in advertising, or list fight resumes in advertising he/she is promoting violence:
I am not sure what you mean with that statement.
Now in terms of the rest, you are committing the very common logical falacy of "Argumentum ad hominem" or "arguement against the man." Your trying to bring down the credability of my arguement by criticizing me and my behavior. Me or my behavior, whether right or wrong, has nothing to do with the arguement. In fact, you have been doing this throughout the thread, and I find it pretty laughable. I haven't said anything until now, because, well, a good sign that someone is clearly losing an arguement is when they resort to trying to bring down your credability. Perhaps my signature lines do promote violence if "you find a way to take it too seriously." I have them there because I find them humorous, but I have been thinking about changing some of them since this thread so I don't come accross as one who promotes violence.
Yet...what do my signature lines, or even my past behavior have to do with my arguement, or the facts that I have presented?
NOTHING! :rofl: