Rumy73
Black Belt
Manny, great question; the answer is no. Sparring should be done safely, respectfully and with control. Whenever I spar with someone new, I say those same things. If a person disagrees and is looking for something else, I shake his hand and go my separate way. If a person I know suddenly gets too aggressive and/or dangerous, I stop the match and sort it out immediately. I will never compromise my safety for someone's ego trip. Sparring is not fighting. While we can use it to simulate parts of it, sparring is an exercise. Hurt people cannot train and do other things in their lives. Anyone coming to dojang with the agenda to hurt someone is in the wrong place. Responsible, higher ranking students should always intervene if they see unsafe, aggressive behavior. They should report it to the school head or designee.