Shizen Shigoku said:
Not the best analogy, but damn - can we at least show some respect?
I think that is the point is that to my eyes Ms Sheehan is not respecting the probable wishes of her dead son.
Take a minute to do an image search on her. She is not clustered at home, collapsed with grief. She has gone out to seek the spotlight. It is not just the picture at the beggining of this thread, she is quite free from tears as she seeks out camera crews to talk with.
I would not use a dead person's name to futher my own ends unless I was pretty damn sure they would have approved. If there was any doubt, I would refrain. And it would not be a case of, 'this cause is too important to care how the dead would feel.'
Ms. Sheehan has made a choice to be a media figure. If she was so torn with grief that she could not leave the house I would decry the media circus camped out on her lawn. But when she made the effort to be known to millions of people, she became open to public discussion.
It seems that the anti-war people would like to have a spokesperson who can bash the president for them but can't be touched on for her rather vile behavior.
Again, would you want your name 'respected' by your relatives to say that Islam was the religion of the devil after you were killed in a bomb? It does not matter the cause, just that you probably would not approve and despite that your relatives used your name to get in front of the cameras.