I just thought of a discussion I was part of, on another online forum. Interesting how it relates to this one. This is kind of related, but somewhat obliquely, so please skip or ignore this if you're not interested.
One woman posted about her current boyfriend. She and he both have kids (hers - about 19, his - 14). His daughter went to him, completely distraught - she was pregnant. It was not mentioned in the thread if she had been assaulted, or had simply engaged in sex very young. What was interesting to me - and heartbreaking - was that the 14-year-old wanted to have the baby (although she is still a child herself), but her father went and somehow (I have no idea how) obtained "morning-after" pills that he was going to force her to take.
Again, I have no idea if this young girl would even be a candidate for the "morning-after" pills at that point, etc. And having a parent decide what meds to dispense, without getting medical attention, scares me.
The woman who posted and her boyfriend ended up getting into a fight, because she wanted him to listen to his daughter's wishes about keeping the baby.
Sort of the opposite situation - a parent who did not want to be a parent to his daughter's child (would a 14-year-old really be raising her baby on her own? impossible), whereas the daughter wanted to keep her pregnancy, and be a mom at 14 or 15.
I think she ended up keeping her pregnancy. I was just relieved that she didn't start taking pills inappropriately.
Anyways, this just occured to me as another example of when a parent's and pregnant child's decisions may conflict - but opposite to the way that has been mentioned here.
Sad, in any case.
One woman posted about her current boyfriend. She and he both have kids (hers - about 19, his - 14). His daughter went to him, completely distraught - she was pregnant. It was not mentioned in the thread if she had been assaulted, or had simply engaged in sex very young. What was interesting to me - and heartbreaking - was that the 14-year-old wanted to have the baby (although she is still a child herself), but her father went and somehow (I have no idea how) obtained "morning-after" pills that he was going to force her to take.
Again, I have no idea if this young girl would even be a candidate for the "morning-after" pills at that point, etc. And having a parent decide what meds to dispense, without getting medical attention, scares me.
The woman who posted and her boyfriend ended up getting into a fight, because she wanted him to listen to his daughter's wishes about keeping the baby.
Sort of the opposite situation - a parent who did not want to be a parent to his daughter's child (would a 14-year-old really be raising her baby on her own? impossible), whereas the daughter wanted to keep her pregnancy, and be a mom at 14 or 15.
I think she ended up keeping her pregnancy. I was just relieved that she didn't start taking pills inappropriately.
Anyways, this just occured to me as another example of when a parent's and pregnant child's decisions may conflict - but opposite to the way that has been mentioned here.
Sad, in any case.