Maybe missing something here

"frame" a common reference in my experience.
It may take awhile to find one's own frame...before any real practice can begin
You did paint a picture
a non issue in my experience, others may find different..
In Beijing with my teachers group, most were from other styles.
Having felt the "soft overcome hard" directly..
Many stayed including myself because of this..
Meeting someone who could do what the stories of old narrated,,making them for me and others, no longer stories but accountings of events during that time...
All methods have good and bad points....representative of the theories they follow..
A problem for "some" might be, they either do not really follow the theory in practice. Or the practice has been corrupted by those unable to demo the theory they say the practice is based on..."soft over comes hard"
either way, it's their practice...hopefully they get a chance to meet those who can actually do what many feel they are "doing".
may find they really are not.
Or better, a person with a deeper skill level in what they already can do...