I don't even see where you disagree with me since your examples don't even contradict it. One reason I can think of is that you dislike the word "hard" - which you pretty much admit to as well. And that's quite common. Any words associated with "Yang" are generally viewed with disdain among that crowd.
If I say words like "Strength, tension, fast, hard, hitting, smashing, etc...", they have a knee-jerk reaction.
"that crowd" "knee-jerk reaction"
The use of hard and soft, vs open and close, empty and full...
is very limited in description referring to a state of energy or application.
open, close , empty or full, used by many in the practices .
reflecting a focus on dynamic change, transitions and relationships between states.
Taiji, as a method, can vary significantly depending on the underlying theory it follows. What may seem missing in one method might be intentional, reflecting a different theory guiding the practice.
If I say words like "Strength, tension, fast, hard, hitting, smashing, etc...", they have a knee-jerk reaction.
the mythical "they"
The problem might be one of using the words to characterize practices not practiced,
providing what might be called "misinformation" based on what seems to be a limited view point...
No one I know has a problem with the words...
They tend to like the "actions" the words describe to be used by others
Provides good contrast allowing them to show what is different, and why...
Not really understanding the reason for this discussion it seems to be off-topic..
To tie this back to the picture I painted regarding a "soft-only art", what you mentioned earlier relies on students who already have experience in other martial arts that taught them hardness. Therefore, the art isn't self-contained.
it is self contained....maybe you misunderstand
What you refer to as "soft" is in context to what is not..."hard"
There are degrees of softness...in which others feeling they "soft" come to find out they are still "hard"
encountering others "softer"
In this way, what might be considered "soft" is still quite "hard "
This type of softness, the product of focused training , very demanding, physically hard to do.
Those students. including myself coming from other practices...found something quite different making the stories of old real. Many including myself ended up staying...
In doing so, most find they have to drop everything they thought they knew..
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Even then it might be to late to get past, ingrained body training from previous training..
Some never can make the transition...
In this sense the training is "self contained" only needing testing as with any training with those outside of the group
to confirm the skill level....
It is said "for 10yrs one does not go outside the door"
Chen style as a method, good for those who enjoy the method....
deep and rich in IMA history.... quite different from other "taiji" methods.
small story about a Chen taiji exponent
Master Wei Shuren
So on the wrong side of fifty Master Wei set aside all that he had learned before and began to learn afresh from Master Wang.
Illustrates the point that practices can be very different..even after many years of practice