Steve
Mostly Harmless
I don't think I was very clear. Frustration with stagnation would be a little more accurate. What I meant was that there is a limit to how far you can go with a DVD. It's a hard ceiling. While some will get frustrated with slow progress, I think it's safe to say that most people will become frustrated with a complete lack of progress.Agreed with everything right up until you said its frustration and stagnation, not laziness, that makes people quit. IMO, it all goes hand in hand. Using myself as an example....as I said earlier, I just began training in a new art. I'd be lying if I said it wasn't the least bit frustrating, to have to learn words in Japanese, the way that they execute strikes and kicks. 26yrs of doing something 1 way, now I have to force myself to learn another way. Yet each and every class I gain a better understanding of things. If I was lazy, I wouldn't be putting in the effort.
You say it yourself. Each and every class you gain a better understanding of things. What if you didn't? What if you couldn't because you had reached the upper limit of the medium?
Once again, there are two lines of conversation going on from the OP. First is the sweat equity discussion, which I personally believe is self-apparent. Of course you have to commit and do the work. You can't learn Kung Fu like Neo, as badass as that might be. Second is whether we have a genetic predisposition for laziness. I might not call it laziness, but I do believe that we are interested as a species in doing things the easy way, if possible, and that goes for all of us.
And the side conversation has to do with how we learn and why people quit. There is an entire professional community devoted to answering this very question. My opinion is that it's less to do with laziness than other factors.