The purpose of this thread really isn't meant to be another 'train by dvd' thread, though it may scratch the surface of that. Instead, this thread is designed (hopefull) to talk about people who put in the hard work, busting their *** in training, vs. those that tend to take the easy route.
I don't know about anyone else, but for me, I like to work for what I have. Yeah, its nice to have someone give you a 'gift' but IMO, if you go thru life, always having things given to you, without any work, how does anyone get to know the meaning of work?
If someone would rather take the easy way of doing things, and learn without a teacher, thats fine....as long as that person is cool with the fact that they're only going to be as good as that book, and they're not going to have anyone push them. Sorry, but there are only so many 'secrets' that you're going to be able to put in a book and dvd. Theres not going to be anyone to correct your footwork, body position, proper hand and foot position when striking, proper location of the strikes....all things that're going to make or break whatever it is that you're doing.
After 26yrs of Kenpo, my current teacher, the last time I worked with him, was making slight changes in things I was doing, showing me ways to make what I was doing better, etc. Now, these were either things that I sadly, was never shown by past Kenpo instructors, things that I just neglected, etc, but whatever the reason, its amazing how much better the change made me.
Due to my Kenpo inst. living in another state, I don't have daily access to him, though I do call him regularly, I needed to find something else to do, training wise. Mid August of this year, I joined a Kyokushin dojo thats not far from my house. Man, after 26yrs in the typical commercial dojos, this was a whole new undertaking, in a very good way of course. The workouts are unlike any that I've had in any other schools (sad but true, I know) and you work your *** off from start to finish. Nobody leaves that class with a dry gi, and I mean nobody! You're pushed in that class from start to finish, and IMO, thats the way it should be! Just when you think you're punching hard, he tells you to punch harder, kick higher, stretch further, etc. He doesn't hand out belt ranks, you earn them, when he feels you're ready. In a nutshell, you don't ask when you're going to be tested.
Of course, if someone wants the easy route, thats fine. If you'd rather not put in the blood, sweat and tears, thats fine...again, as long as you understand, you're not reaping any other benefits, and your training will only be as good as whats in that book.
People often complain about a hardship, ie: not having the school/art they want to train in, nearby, they don't have the time, they can't get there because of this or that. As I've said before, and I'll say again....it all comes down to how determined the person is, to get that training. I'm fortunate to have access to the majority of people that I train with or would consider training with, nearby. I could literally walk to my Arnis insts. house as well as the Kyokushin dojo. I pay for my Kenpo inst. to come to CT and train me for a day. I'll eventually be making the trip to NJ to see him. Its not a cheap venture by any means, but its something that I do because of what he has to offer. And I'm not the only person in the world who does that. Another friend of mine is a brown belt in BJJ under Roy Harris. He's on the go constantly, traveling to seminars where Roy will be, going to Ca. to train with him, etc. Again, another costly venture, and if someone honestly can't afford to do that, thats fine. But that doesnt mean you need to take an easy route. There are always options, again, its a matter of someone putting in the dedication to make it happen.
Whats sad with alot of training today, is the fact that some schools tend to cater to the groups that want the easy way. Give me my belt every 3 mos. or I'll leave. So out of fear of losing cash, they comply, thus turning into a mcdojo. Give away fries and a coke with that belt while you're at it....LOL! If training is too hard, too much contact, instead of sucking it up and putting in the blood, sweat and tears, they quit and go somewhere where its easy, where there is no hard contact or any contact at all.
In the end, it all comes down to the person. Some will walk thru the fire and others will stand back and complain.
I don't know about anyone else, but for me, I like to work for what I have. Yeah, its nice to have someone give you a 'gift' but IMO, if you go thru life, always having things given to you, without any work, how does anyone get to know the meaning of work?
If someone would rather take the easy way of doing things, and learn without a teacher, thats fine....as long as that person is cool with the fact that they're only going to be as good as that book, and they're not going to have anyone push them. Sorry, but there are only so many 'secrets' that you're going to be able to put in a book and dvd. Theres not going to be anyone to correct your footwork, body position, proper hand and foot position when striking, proper location of the strikes....all things that're going to make or break whatever it is that you're doing.
After 26yrs of Kenpo, my current teacher, the last time I worked with him, was making slight changes in things I was doing, showing me ways to make what I was doing better, etc. Now, these were either things that I sadly, was never shown by past Kenpo instructors, things that I just neglected, etc, but whatever the reason, its amazing how much better the change made me.
Due to my Kenpo inst. living in another state, I don't have daily access to him, though I do call him regularly, I needed to find something else to do, training wise. Mid August of this year, I joined a Kyokushin dojo thats not far from my house. Man, after 26yrs in the typical commercial dojos, this was a whole new undertaking, in a very good way of course. The workouts are unlike any that I've had in any other schools (sad but true, I know) and you work your *** off from start to finish. Nobody leaves that class with a dry gi, and I mean nobody! You're pushed in that class from start to finish, and IMO, thats the way it should be! Just when you think you're punching hard, he tells you to punch harder, kick higher, stretch further, etc. He doesn't hand out belt ranks, you earn them, when he feels you're ready. In a nutshell, you don't ask when you're going to be tested.
Of course, if someone wants the easy route, thats fine. If you'd rather not put in the blood, sweat and tears, thats fine...again, as long as you understand, you're not reaping any other benefits, and your training will only be as good as whats in that book.
People often complain about a hardship, ie: not having the school/art they want to train in, nearby, they don't have the time, they can't get there because of this or that. As I've said before, and I'll say again....it all comes down to how determined the person is, to get that training. I'm fortunate to have access to the majority of people that I train with or would consider training with, nearby. I could literally walk to my Arnis insts. house as well as the Kyokushin dojo. I pay for my Kenpo inst. to come to CT and train me for a day. I'll eventually be making the trip to NJ to see him. Its not a cheap venture by any means, but its something that I do because of what he has to offer. And I'm not the only person in the world who does that. Another friend of mine is a brown belt in BJJ under Roy Harris. He's on the go constantly, traveling to seminars where Roy will be, going to Ca. to train with him, etc. Again, another costly venture, and if someone honestly can't afford to do that, thats fine. But that doesnt mean you need to take an easy route. There are always options, again, its a matter of someone putting in the dedication to make it happen.
Whats sad with alot of training today, is the fact that some schools tend to cater to the groups that want the easy way. Give me my belt every 3 mos. or I'll leave. So out of fear of losing cash, they comply, thus turning into a mcdojo. Give away fries and a coke with that belt while you're at it....LOL! If training is too hard, too much contact, instead of sucking it up and putting in the blood, sweat and tears, they quit and go somewhere where its easy, where there is no hard contact or any contact at all.
In the end, it all comes down to the person. Some will walk thru the fire and others will stand back and complain.