mantis said:
let me start from the beginning
simply
what i am saying is to get rid of racism more of the society's money should be employed in more efficient programs that give minorities what they need -- this may require some restructuring of the society example this may lead to having a hispanic president (ur like keep on dreaming haha)
i said this is the way an apology should happen. by dropping the word color, or race from all of our actions, and by putting money where it's supposed to go (example: fix LA's schools for example rather than going to war or something!)
now 7starmantis said he doesnt wanna apologize. i said again the apology is not by a specific on individual saying "sorry dude.. my grandfather raped ur grandma coz she was a slave". again, this kind of apology cannot happen by having the government or the administration like George Bush saying "sorry" but it happens by employing the social institutions that already exist, such as the congress, the city counsel and other organizations (yes these were examples i was giving, im not saying society is CONGRESS)
who forced them to live in ghettoes? what kinda argument is that man? who forced the indians to live in camps, the japanese, and who's discriminating the middle easterns today? THE EFFING GOVERNMENT MAN!
you are saying my arguments do not hold under the facts available in this nation HALLILUJA man. that's what im saying. what's available in this nation MUST go if you want racism to go. it's obviously not feasible any soon. i agree!
last thing i want to emphasize is what i noticed from this long long convo with you guys: you guys treat the minorities as sub classes of people who happen to live somewhere in the same country. let's say the blacks are behind for some reason (whatever the reasons is) they're behind in education, they join gangs, they drink, they fall into drugs (and all other prototypes) let's assume this is right, YOU as an american who share the same nationality and the same country with these people do you just leave them to do it on their own? or do you STRIVE to help them out? (help them maybe by stirring your political power in that direction)
americans say they are willing to go to afghanistan and Iraq to free them from dictatorships and such, but they are not willing to do 1/4 of that effort to free minorities from the existing burdens?! that does not make sense man.
i did read your replies to my points, but i'd rather not reply to them again. hopefully this post establishes a clearer idea on where i stand and what i want.
thanks bob, thanks 7star and the rest!
We've been force feeding money in to social programs in black communities, hand over fist, for decades....and the problem is getting WORSE.
How many more billions in government give aways will we have to spend, before you realize that it isn't the answer? Oh, I know 'all of it'.
The problem, as it stands now, is purely internal. Excuses and requests for apologise only exasperate the problem. Why do you think black americans like Bill Cosby are coming forward to say enough is enough? Because they see that the problem is internal, and handouts only serve to make the problem worse.
Question? How is giving a heroin addict more money going to help him? The sad fact is, a heroin addict needs to want to make his own life better first, before ANYONE can help him. You can't FORCE someone to get better. The problem in the African American communities won't be solved by any amount of 'White Man's guilt' money. In fact, it is the belief that they are OWED this money, and they should rely on it, that has created the victim mentality. Opportunity? Yes. Handout? NO!!!!
Part of the problem is $800.00 rims on $500.00 cars. What I mean is the shallow materialism of the inner-city. Wealth is defined as big screen tv's, stereo's and spinning rims. (They spinnin'!!!-Chris Rock). Many in the inner city believe that prosperity is found in the trivially material. The ability to buy $200.00 shoes, and gold chains, when many of them have to rely on government assistance to feed their families.
What's more, that's not a black problem alone. It's indicative of much poverty. In fact, it's a mindset that is poverty creating. It is the reason that many white americans are poor as well. The problem isn't that they live in extreme poverty, the problem is that they live in comfortable reliance on the state.
There's a HUGE difference. If they lived in extreme poverty, many would take advantage of whatever existed to help get them out. However, if the state is going to foot much of the bill, there's really no need to get out of the 'relative poverty'.
To illustrate what I mean, contrast that shallow materialism with this...
I have a family who are friends of mine who are immigrants from Indonesia. They moved here, virtually impoverished. Eventually, however, through hardwork and financial discipline, they were able to purchase a motel. The entire family worked their, and they worked like slaves, saved like misers, and lived like paupers, until they'd saved enough to buy ANOTHER motel. Then half the family went their.
Eventually, using the same method, they bought a third motel. Now, honestly, you wouldn't know to look at them, they don't dress flashy, but they are worth a considerable amount of money. Moreover, they can afford to send their children to just about any college.
Another man I know is a doctor from the Phillipines. I was having a conversation with him the other night, and he told me that he has a friend in the Phillipines who has worked for 15 years, and has finally saved up enough to buy a car. This doctor told me that he was here in the US for 6 months, and he bought his first car.
Now, these people, who came to the US with virtually nothing, are among the biggest advocates I know who claim that America is a land of opportunity. They are also among the most unsympathetic to the cry that you can't make it in America. As far as they are concerned, if you can't make it in America, you can't make it anywhere. Moreover, you should be ashamed of yourself, if you can't make it in America.
That is basically what the doctor told me, that he really doesn't understand all the whinning going on in America. As far as he's concerned, it's a golden land of opportunity.
I guess it takes living in REAL poverty, to understand how relatively good we have it, and what opportunities are available to the industrious and self-reliant.