With regard to Uncle Tom and sell-outs...
Imagine a purely hypothetical country.
In this country are two peoples of distinctly different colors. One group is the majority, and controls everything. The majority group has all the money, all the property, and all the political power. In fact, the majority group enslaves the minority group and treats them essentially as domestic animals, property.
Over time, the majority group changes their attitudes to some extent, and decide that slavery is wrong. They free the minority group, but they do not relinquish their grip on power, money, and property. The minority group is not allowed to assimilate into the larger society and are forced to live in groups of their own kind, and they earn much smaller wages, subsist on much less, and cannot play any role in the running of society. They are free, but not equal.
More time passes, and society continues to change. Now it is accepted that all men are equal, without regard to their color. But this does not mean that the majority group welcomes the minority group with open arms as long-lost brothers, or that the minority group is willing to forgive and forget all that has happened. Distrust and animosity remain on both sides. Each group is suspicious of the other, doubt their motives, and are reluctant to take anything at face value.
The failure to understand each other's culture, which have never been identical in the first place, leads to more problems. As the members of the minority group who wish to take their place as equals in the society still run by the majority, they find resistance not based on their color any longer, but on their mannerisms, their habits, and their manner of speech. The members of the majority, even those who consciously embrace equality, still find it difficult to make themselves understood and to understand when the language itself is used differently between the two groups.
There is resistance by some majority members who dig their heels in and insist that if the minority wishes to join the main branch of society, that is fine, but the members of the minority must give up everything that identifies them as members of the minority group except their color (which they obviously can't change). In other words, if the minority wishes to act like the majority, they will find acceptance in the majority group. If they refuse to 'assimilate' in this way, they will find it much more difficult to fit in and be accepted by the majority.
At the same time, there are members of the minority who find it offensive to be asked to 'assimilate' into the larger society in order to find success and acceptance. Their culture is essentially artificial in the first place; they were forced to create it when they were enslaved and later when they were ostracized and pushed to the margins of society. Now that they are supposedly 'equal', they are being told to abandon this culture they built themselves and adopt the culture of the group that formerly enslaved them.
Inside the minority group, some choose to assimilate into the larger culture and leave their own behind. Some of those see success; some fail to assimilate; some assimilate and fail to succeed anyway. Others resent the success of those who have assimilated, point to failures as examples that 'prove' that assimilation doesn't work anyway, and continue to find reasons to distrust the demand that the larger society makes on the minority for those reasons.
There are no 'good' people and no 'bad' people in this theoretical country. Each wants to part of the success of the country itself, and everyone wants to succeed and to be accepted into society. But due to the history of this mythical country, and due to the distrust that each group has of the other's motives, change is slow, resentment is high, and equality remains an elusive goal, even if both groups want it; and there are always going to be some people in both groups who don't want it.
Imagine a purely hypothetical country.
In this country are two peoples of distinctly different colors. One group is the majority, and controls everything. The majority group has all the money, all the property, and all the political power. In fact, the majority group enslaves the minority group and treats them essentially as domestic animals, property.
Over time, the majority group changes their attitudes to some extent, and decide that slavery is wrong. They free the minority group, but they do not relinquish their grip on power, money, and property. The minority group is not allowed to assimilate into the larger society and are forced to live in groups of their own kind, and they earn much smaller wages, subsist on much less, and cannot play any role in the running of society. They are free, but not equal.
More time passes, and society continues to change. Now it is accepted that all men are equal, without regard to their color. But this does not mean that the majority group welcomes the minority group with open arms as long-lost brothers, or that the minority group is willing to forgive and forget all that has happened. Distrust and animosity remain on both sides. Each group is suspicious of the other, doubt their motives, and are reluctant to take anything at face value.
The failure to understand each other's culture, which have never been identical in the first place, leads to more problems. As the members of the minority group who wish to take their place as equals in the society still run by the majority, they find resistance not based on their color any longer, but on their mannerisms, their habits, and their manner of speech. The members of the majority, even those who consciously embrace equality, still find it difficult to make themselves understood and to understand when the language itself is used differently between the two groups.
There is resistance by some majority members who dig their heels in and insist that if the minority wishes to join the main branch of society, that is fine, but the members of the minority must give up everything that identifies them as members of the minority group except their color (which they obviously can't change). In other words, if the minority wishes to act like the majority, they will find acceptance in the majority group. If they refuse to 'assimilate' in this way, they will find it much more difficult to fit in and be accepted by the majority.
At the same time, there are members of the minority who find it offensive to be asked to 'assimilate' into the larger society in order to find success and acceptance. Their culture is essentially artificial in the first place; they were forced to create it when they were enslaved and later when they were ostracized and pushed to the margins of society. Now that they are supposedly 'equal', they are being told to abandon this culture they built themselves and adopt the culture of the group that formerly enslaved them.
Inside the minority group, some choose to assimilate into the larger culture and leave their own behind. Some of those see success; some fail to assimilate; some assimilate and fail to succeed anyway. Others resent the success of those who have assimilated, point to failures as examples that 'prove' that assimilation doesn't work anyway, and continue to find reasons to distrust the demand that the larger society makes on the minority for those reasons.
There are no 'good' people and no 'bad' people in this theoretical country. Each wants to part of the success of the country itself, and everyone wants to succeed and to be accepted into society. But due to the history of this mythical country, and due to the distrust that each group has of the other's motives, change is slow, resentment is high, and equality remains an elusive goal, even if both groups want it; and there are always going to be some people in both groups who don't want it.