Here in lies the problem. You think getting into street fights is self defence. It is understandable as I (as most do) made the same mistakes at your age. I believe this will help you. It is an hour long but if you have the time it is well worth the effort and bets of all itās free
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We are not talking about schools refusing to allow contact during training. We are talking about the ritual and systematic physical abuse of students.
Women have 30% less muscle mass than men, they also carry their child rearing body part in their. Would it be acceptable if a female student reached her dan grade to line up all the adult make instructors and ask them to kick her hard in the stomach? That isnāt even allowed in professional combat sports.
The video is nothing more than hazing:-
Hazing is the practice of rituals and other activities involving harassment, abuse or humiliation used as a way of initiating a person into a group. Hazing is seen in many different types of social groups, including gangs, sports teams, schools, military units, and fraternities and sororities
Then you have not been taught kata correctly. But that is a discussion for a different thread.