!I want my own 'beliefs' to be as close to reality as possible. I truly not interested in 'bullying others'. I'm more about education and also challenging my own worldview all the time.
What are you basing your assessment of "reality" on?
I mentioned elsewhere that my experience, and that of others with direct personal experience of violence, has led to paring the techniques down to the minimum that will do the most. You seem obsessed with piling up huge stacks of techniques...
Are you familiar with the OODA Loop? It's a practical model of how we process situations. The four elements are Observe, Orient, Decide, and Act. After a certain point, too many choices lead to paralysis in the Decision phase -- and by the time you decide what you want to do -- you're hit in the face.