Originally posted by thekuntawman
what i meant to say about the venus sisters, is that their dad was not an expert tennis player, yet he trained them into champions. they became champions, not because of what he taught them, but because they played so many matches, and he studied the way the game is played. so, he learned while they learned.
the martial artist, cannot do this with his students. before he can teach someone to fight (and even to defend his family or his own life) he should already know what he is talking about. somebody's life is depending on the trust the student has for his teacher.
all that, because some people think you can know how to fight, without fighting.
"fight without fighting" is a line in a bruce lee movie, people.
Kuntawman
Again good point with the Venus sisters.
"the martial artist ,cannot do this with his students. befroe he can teach someone to fight(and even to defend his family or his own life) he should know what he is talking about."
I agree, however are you saying that a person can't defend themselves without knowing how to fight? Can a person defend themselves from a weapons attack without having ever stepped foot inside a martial art school or a master's doorway? I disagree. Daily people defend themselves (kids and adults) without ever darkening the doorway of a training hall.
Is sparring a true way to learn how to protect yourself in a self defense situation? I don't think so. While it has it's place it's not the only way. In fact I think it can lead to some bad habits.
1) How many fights have you seen where two people grab sticks and face off with each other?
2) For the BJJ student who gets down on the mat and wrestles for the submission locks (technically they are sparring) but is this good for self defense?
3) The TKD stylists who practice sparring but can't hit to the head (so they don't) is this realistic?
4) The Ultimate fighter in the ring (Pride or Octagon fighting) all bulked up on steriods and pain medication is this the way to train for self defense?
Each way here has it's problem when it comes to self defense training. And yet each one is protrayed as being applicable to self defense and you talk to the instructors or the students and they will try and convince you it is the best way (their way).
Let me clarify the bad habits
1) Padded stick sparring can lead to you not recognizing leagitament hits that without pads you would respect more.
a) same goes for amour
2) BJJ or any submission fighting if you train for submission you could try and apply the same when you need to do something else. Like get loose and get up maybe.
3) TKD olympic style fighting produces great kickers and good endurance, however the not protecting the head to hand techniques I think is counter productive for self defense.
4) And the Ultimate Fighting great sport but the possible drug habits formed (need I say more).
I'm not against sparring. In my karate days that's the majority of what I did at my instructor's private dojo (it's still what some are doing to this day). I understand this side of the discussion, I just see it different now than I use to.
With respect