I can call you jaded.
But....I'd rather call you Bill.
In all honesty, yes I have met people that confused (not sure if that is the best word). Even been on the mat with them. I think the "what art does these gazillion things" posters here are probably male, and probably 20ish and could very well be looking for something that doesn't exist.
The folks that I have met in person that have not had a very realistic perception as to what martial arts are were typically female, in their 30s/40s, and weren't looking for the impossible.
Instead, they had recently heard ethereal claims about a system, or saw a demo (or a parlor trick) that made some element to training look like magic...such as brick-breaking. The yellow page ads that brag about how MA training does this, this, this, this, this...don't always help with these misconceptions. The conversation was usually started the other person knew I trained, or saw me with a school shirt/bag.
I think they knew that the impression they had was a bit lofty, but at the same time they did not know what was realistic or not...and seemed happy to talk to someone that wasn't trying to sell them something.[/quote]
Yahhh Carol.!!! No I think Confused is the right word.
When you are beginning how do you tell the real from the Puffery? I am just so
DAMN Lucky that I found Andrew Green first and he was patient enough to teach me some solid basics. He did NOT ignore me because I was new, in fact He helped me More because I was new and needed it more than the seasoned guys. He answered my dumb questions of " Why this way" and "why not that way"
so applications made sense, they were logical, and easy to break down. You could see the "why" of why they worked. This means I can see why something won't work as well, that is a huge bonus. It lets me sort out the wannabe's and scammers.
If I hadn't found Andrew first and he wasn't the Sensei/Mentor he is I might still be in an Aikido class right now. Endlessly throwing myself to the ground when someone loosley grabbed my wrist believing that This was Real Life training that via the majical application of Chi I could save my life.
If this is all I was ever exposed to How would I know any different? ( I'm not knocking Aikido, just that version)
So I can't help but feel a kinship for the ones who ask questions and are confused. That is me still. Wasn't that you once?
Lori