Right.
Here's a mind-twist for you… resistance isn't realistic.
Get your head around that one…
So, if you acknowledge that, why aren't you acknowledging what those different dynamics (and the reasons for them) when you look at other training/demonstration methods? This ain't sparring… and it's not meant to be, or pretending to be.
Seriously, different contexts require different methods… I highly recommend you start to realise that, Dogberry… (sorry, Horatio was already taken…
To be honest, the entire clip comes across to me as a thuggish display of power without any real sense of personal control or restraint… but when it comes to the size of the individuals involved, I don't have much of an issue. The instructor is who the instructor is… and maybe it's only these guys (who happen to be a bit smaller than him) who are at the senior level to act as "attackers"… I mean, it's not like a WWE wrestler is taking on a 10 year old kid here… the size disparity isn't that huge.
The video as/is an example of what? It's not an example of the criticisms you cited… so what is it an example of?
"To avoid and counter" might be the "meat" of what you're doing, but that in no way whatsoever means that it's the primary method of anything else… as I stated earlier, the primary tactical application here is to overwhelm… not to avoid and counter. What you do is just that… what you do. It's not the best, the be-all end-all, the only, the proven, or anything else. It's just one of many approaches. I heartily recommend you realise that other systems have other ideas, which might run counter to your understanding, and accept that just because you don't do something, that doesn't make it wrong, bad, or anything else.
In other words, get over this idea that what you do is the only way to do things.
To be honest, it's quite a large part of the training of a realistic self defence system… so some systems will train like that far more than "occasionally"… for their benefit.
No. You're looking at entirely the wrong thing… stop thinking that all systems are training for the same context, or that the sports-style context you're familiar with is the reality outside of that.
That's not the person who's doing the "training"… they're the training partner.
Look, I'll try to put this in terms you can understand… when running through punching combinations with someone holding pads, are you concerned about the pad-man not avoiding the punches, or counter-punching (outside of as required in specific drills)? In a real way, the "attacker" here is more like a guy holding pads… not a sparring partner.
Whose ability, though? The guy who's not training?
The point is that you're still looking at the wrong side of things, and expecting it to match something that it's not.
What makes you think that that's not dealt with? You've seen a clip of one tactical approach… which is to overwhelm… but that doesn't mean anything when it comes to saying what the training is actually like… unless, of course, you think that all training forms must cover all the bases (here's a hint… not only is that impossible, it's downright undesired).
Read what's been said, open yourself up to understanding that what you're watching isn't anything to do with anything you know about, and see if you can see the answers to these comments… because you're still missing, well, everything.