Flying Crane
Sr. Grandmaster
Oh well, allow me to introduce myself. Since I’ve just had my 50th birthday I do consider myself an adult, and I’ve been training in traditional martial arts since 1984, so that’s a fair bit longer than the 5-10 years that you reference. I’m actually still eagerly anticipating my first real fight. Wondering how it will turn out. I’ve simply found it rather easy to get through life without getting into fights. Somehow the bad guys just don’t seem to be hiding behind every bush, waiting to steal my lunch money.I told you, I don't know a single person whose first ever real fight took place as an adult, much less after training in TMA for 5 to 10 years. Do you?
Or it just really isn’t necessary.If someone has reached adulthood without ever having engaged in a real fight, it's likely because they've avoided fights their whole lives (even in cases where it was against their best interest to avoid them) and they aren't likely to change that.