Edmund BlackAdder said:Where are the True masters?
Being very quiet.
A true master need not shout about himself, not point to papers or stripes.
He just is.
The blowhard and egomaniac spends much time pointing to his stripes, waving his papers around, and naming all those he ever trained with, so that you will know how great he is.
A true master need not call himself master.
Others will call him that.
A false master will introduce himself as "Master", or "Soke" or some such crap.
A True Master needs no title. He just is.
The false master attracts attention, and is in a constant state of "look at me".
The true master, has nothing to prove, and so may appear ordinary.
A false master will brag, and strut, then blame others for his failings.
A True Master is humble, and quiet, but will strike like lightning if need be, and take full responsibility for himself.
We have both on here.
I gotta go with Blackadder.
We have had folks sign up with "Soke" as part of their title. Instead of "Edmund Blackadder", it would be "Soke Blackadder." Needless to say, they were the most clueless folks around.
We have had a lot of folks somehow slip in the fact that they were a shihan, tenth dan, etc and then try to make a big deal of being humble about it. "Yeah I was made a shihan- but it really doesn't mean much IMO."
So why arrange it so people can find out about it?
Compare this with folks who won't mention their rank at all. People like Kreth just won't talk about their rank, but they could impress folks if they wanted.
On the internet we get quite a few idiots that try to impress others. The guys that really know their stuff don't seem to feel the need to impress others. The liers never seem to stick to one lie. I can think of folks that were caught lying about being in USMC Force Recon who also lied about being trained in Koga ryu. And guess what- people who knew that particular fraud said that he could not even do a decent punch and was a coward when confronted in person.
So when someone makes a lot of stories and claims to impress me, it only leaves a bad impression.
Those that don't make claims without a damn good reason are the ones I respect.