BH
I hate to take this to a personal level, but who says I do nothing. And why assume that soldiers actually do anything for society?
In fact, I would argue that the purpose of a standing professional army is conquest.
Wow!
Soldiers do nothing for society? They join knowing that the purpose of a standing army is conquest?
Let me be blunt. You have never served. You have never been part of the thin line between the barbarians and your children sleeping the rest of the innocent.
I read your story about your grandfather. You fail to understand how people think and how they would react.
I have done many, many stupid things in my life. When my children ask me what to do, I will tell them my mistakes and advise them not to repeat them.
I joined the military. I went for infantry. My father, who served in WWII, tried to get me to either stay out or go for something other than 11 bang bang. I guess I was just stubborn. Years later, I see that he was right in saying that my skills were better served elsewhere. As it turned out, I spent more time in the S2 section than a foxhole. But I do take a certain amount of pride in putting myself in harms way when given the chance.
And I respect those that have had to experience what I have not. I remember that on September 11th 2001 (Japan time) I drove home from class and saw the rescue folks setting up alongside the Tone river. We had just had a typhoon go through and they were going to spend all night preparing for the possibility of the river overflowing. I thought to myself that they would spend the night wide awake so that me and my family could sleep safely. And I gave a little prayer of thanks as I crossed the bridge. Of course, as I was taking a late dinner the news from America came through and I did not get much sleep.
So I think you should look at the way you have belittled the contributions that
others have choosen to go through to realize just how they react to you. Not one person I know of in any country I have been in thinks that they joined their countries' military to conquer other countries. And some of the Japanese guys I have met were most certainly part of an army of conquest and not defense. But they did not think that. They were led by their leaders into thinking that they were defending something vital, something worth laying down their life for. Even the scum bags in al queada think that they are defending the word of God.
Think about that when you say that the purpose of an army is conquest and that there are much better ways to live your life. You have
never made the choice to put yourself between a bullet and a child. Every person I served with thought that they were there to die if needed in order to keep someone else from taking the same bullet. They made the choice to die if needed. They do not look at your choice to take a salary and teach kids in the same light.
So your grandfather was quite correct in saying what he did from his perspective. But from someone who has made a choice to sacrifice his life if needed, your looking down on him does not go over well. You saying that you do something for society pales in comparison to that. And hey, I am a teacher just like you. As someone who has been a soldier as well as someone who teaches kids, I can say that your talking about how you do something for others kind of is not quite in the same level as a soldier who knows they may be asked to die so that others may live.
Think about that and understand how you sound.