Flying Crane
Sr. Grandmaster
Yeah, and a lot of us grew up wrestling in the back yard with the neighbor kids, so we are at least starting with that level of experience. We may be more-or-less equal to the guy who just tackled us, so on that point at least we aren't automatically behind.Sometimes you don't have to actually out-grapple the specialist. You just have to be able to survive long enough to escape and re-establish your preferred range.
In the early days of MMA, grapplers dominated almost every fight. Then came the era of strikers who learned just enough grappling to protect themselves long enough to escape and get back to their "A" game. Finally we got to the modern era of fighters who are highly proficient in all ranges.
Yep. For most self-defense purposes you don't need to be able to out-grapple a specialist. I'd say a good benchmark would be this: if you are tackled to the ground by a larger, stronger opponent who has some decent natural grappling instincts or a little experience doing backyard wrestling with his friends, and this guy gets mounted on you and tries to punch your face in, can you protect yourself and get back to your feet? If so, you have enough ground fighting expertise for the vast majority of self-defense situations.
I think another mistake is that some people assume it will be Royce Gracie who tackles us for our lunch money. I think the chances of that attacker being a highly skilled person like that is very small. We don't need to have world champion-level skills for effective self defense.