With respect, for someone who does not have hardly any martial arts experience, and none in Aikido, I would ask that you first see for yourself, and not listen to what everyone says! One of my kung fu brothers is also an aikido adept and Brazilian jujitsu black belt legit besides our kung fu. We spar for 1-2 hours every Tuesday night in my garage. He has in total over 20 years of experience and I have over 30 years experience. We use everything we have learned and play. I can tell you that when I go full speed with my kung fu and he employs his true aikido, he is able to defend and strike simultaneously and catch me off balance if I do not move and absorb as well. Brother, as I have stated many times, it is NOT the art, but the one who executes it. And, again, the arts that are promulgated today that have survived many years did so because at their geneisis they were life/death fighting arts....there were no pitter patter tournaments, rolling on the ground, etc. And, by the way both Krav Maga and Combato employ certain softer techniques as you progress. How do I know? Though I have spent 32 years as a kung fu and tai chi practitioner from legit hard boiled fighters, my religious background has afforded me many opportunities to meet and play with Israeli Krav Maga people. I will tell you the good ones have Yin as well as Yang like all good fighters.
My one pet peeve after all this time is the total rejection of someone saying something will not work when they have not gone against a treu adept in it and seen for themselves! I have sparred/fought many styles other than kung fu and I will tell you, for instance, a Bill Sosa (God rest his soul) in aikido, Yang Chen Fu in tai chi, or others of that ilk can well handle full speed attacks.
Before judging anything in life, experience it firsthand, then either accept it, adapt it, or let it go!! With honor!
My one pet peeve after all this time is the total rejection of someone saying something will not work when they have not gone against a treu adept in it and seen for themselves! I have sparred/fought many styles other than kung fu and I will tell you, for instance, a Bill Sosa (God rest his soul) in aikido, Yang Chen Fu in tai chi, or others of that ilk can well handle full speed attacks.
Before judging anything in life, experience it firsthand, then either accept it, adapt it, or let it go!! With honor!