My dear, it's not a rant, it's an explanation. Don't read into my words more than there is. 'Over explaining' to people is most often seen as patronising. If I want to know something I will ask, I don't mind not knowing about something and feel fine about asking so I can learn but please don't go on about something when not asked.
I'm also not speaking for people, I asked him to consider why people were arguing with him more than before which they actually are.
Please note chart and the bit that says 'did she ask you to explain?' I did not ask for an explanation and 'did you ask if she needed it explained.' I did not ask.
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Please take this in the spirit it is offered, a light hearted nudge to chaps out there, it will help in all relationships.